Jfargo Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 I met this waitress at the bar a month ago and we have had good conversations in person since. She has been giving me mixed signals about her interest but there is one question I have. The second time that I talked to her she had this gorgeous red lipstick on. I mentioned that it was attractive. Well last week I go into the bar and we talk for a few minutes. She isn't wearing lipstick when we first talked but she comes back 15 minutes later to talk and she has put the red lipstick on. Clearly interested? Just trying to make herself feel pretty?
Glitters Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Maybe she forgot to put it on and when she saw you, she remembered? I wouldn't read too much into it
GunslingerRoland Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 The odds that a waitress is interested in you and not just being friendly for more tips .0035%? Honestly, I have no idea though, how is she with other people at the bar? 1
Author Jfargo Posted December 21, 2015 Author Posted December 21, 2015 The odds that a waitress is interested in you and not just being friendly for more tips .0035%? Honestly, I have no idea though, how is she with other people at the bar? I've actually hung out with her outside of the bar but I'm not sure if she is just shy or I'm maybe getting friend zoned. And she isn't even my waitress, she comes over and talks several times. So it's not about tips.
DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 I've actually hung out with her outside of the bar but I'm not sure if she is just shy or I'm maybe getting friend zoned. And she isn't even my waitress, she comes over and talks several times. So it's not about tips. Conjecture and theories will often run wild, I do have a solution that is anything but mild, Next time she approaches, ask her on a date, Quit overthinking it, just do it, don't wait. 2
hasaquestion Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 I've actually hung out with her outside of the bar but I'm not sure if she is just shy or I'm maybe getting friend zoned. And she isn't even my waitress, she comes over and talks several times. So it's not about tips. If it has been one month, and you've seen this person multiple times, and nothing's happened..... She's probably not interested imo. Are you any closer to taking her out than you were a month ago?
karokarol Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Conjecture and theories will often run wild, I do have a solution that is anything but mild, Next time she approaches, ask her on a date, Quit overthinking it, just do it, don't wait. this. nothing to lose, really. be light, when you do that.
truth_seeker Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 If it has been one month, and you've seen this person multiple times, and nothing's happened..... She's probably not interested imo. Are you any closer to taking her out than you were a month ago? Huh? Nothing has happened because he hasn't made a move. She might be waiting for him to ask her out. He should ask her out.
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