Fernville Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 I don't understand a girl I know. I have known her longer than others. Yet it seems her behaviour makes me feel bad. She can be very nice kind, friendly and very polite to me often but then other days it's like she less so. For example if we are in a group, and I'm talking she won't initiate nor will she get involved in the conversation, she goes quiet. When I speak spro her she often just giggles, like a polite giggle and that's about it. Occasionally she will initiate something but not carry it on. When I say something funny and others laugh, she won't again get involved and she will just laugh to herself. And if others make fun of me she will laugh also. I have a crush on this girl, so It doesn't make me feel great. Then when I leave the room, she totally changes, she becomes louder, talkative more and laughs at what the other guys are saying. This again changes when I come into the room. When I ask her a question to try and include she just gives me a one word reply but again when I go she becomes more open and loud with the others. It bothers me quite a bit because it feels like I have done something bad to her, and therefore makes me more withdrawn towards her. I smile a lot in general and try and make her smile back which she does quite a bit. Girls I think her behaviour seems like she doesn't like me much? But I dont know why it changes, should I just let her be?
E-Squared Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Word of advice: People suck, especially women.
lollipopspot Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Word of advice: People suck, especially women. Word of advice: you truly are going to be forever alone unless you deal with your disdain towards the half of the population that you seem to want to date.
TheGagagirl1234 Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Aww.. I'm a very shy girl, and I can relate to that. This is how I act around guys I like. You should consider asking her out.
Author Fernville Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 Aww.. I'm a very shy girl, and I can relate to that. This is how I act around guys I like. You should consider asking her out. I'm finding it hard to beleive because she simply seems uninterested sometimes. When she talks soemtimes she keeps very good eye contact almost intense sometimes, like a stare but other times when I look at her to talk, I will look but she will just avert away to the side. With another guy she seems more open and friendly often and talks more.
TheGagagirl1234 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 (edited) I'm finding it hard to beleive because she simply seems uninterested sometimes. When she talks soemtimes she keeps very good eye contact almost intense sometimes, like a stare but other times when I look at her to talk, I will look but she will just avert away to the side. With another guy she seems more open and friendly often and talks more. I would take it as a good sign. Is she shy in general or just around you? If she is just shy around you, then it's definitely a good sign. I once knew a guy who usually was talkactive and outgoing, but he always avoided me in groups. He would only talk to me when we were alone and he also stuttered a lot. After a couple of months I found out he liked me. If she does this then she definitely likes you. Edited December 22, 2015 by TheGagagirl1234
Author Fernville Posted December 22, 2015 Author Posted December 22, 2015 I would take it as a good sign. Is she shy in general or just around you? If she is just shy around you, then it's definitely a good sign. I once knew a guy who usually was talkactive and outgoing, but he always avoided me in groups. He would only talk to me when we were alone and he also stuttered a lot. After a couple of months I found out he liked me. If she does this then she definitely likes you. She is quiet in general but perhaps more so with me, like i said above its like she doesnt want to talk to me when i leave again she becomes more open and when i come back in she becomes quiet again. She also aplogises alot to me for no reason.
TheGagagirl1234 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 She is quiet in general but perhaps more so with me, like i said above its like she doesnt want to talk to me when i leave again she becomes more open and when i come back in she becomes quiet again. She also aplogises alot to me for no reason. As I mentioned before, I'm a very shy girl, and I did this to my former crush. I would recommend watching her body language. Not in a creepy way, but I think you know what I mean. Actually, 80% of our communication is based on body language so that says a lot. I've looked up body language signs of attraction - many of them describe my current crush, and I think he likes me too.
Author Fernville Posted December 23, 2015 Author Posted December 23, 2015 As I mentioned before, I'm a very shy girl, and I did this to my former crush. I would recommend watching her body language. Not in a creepy way, but I think you know what I mean. Actually, 80% of our communication is based on body language so that says a lot. I've looked up body language signs of attraction - many of them describe my current crush, and I think he likes me too. Body language she doesn't really give much. She never subtly touches me or initiates touch, never touches her hair when I approach, I haven't noticed much at all. What else should I look for? Could her behaviour also be seen as disinterest? Maybe she gets a vibe I like her but doesnt feel the same.., she is older...
TheGagagirl1234 Posted December 23, 2015 Posted December 23, 2015 Body language she doesn't really give much. She never subtly touches me or initiates touch, never touches her hair when I approach, I haven't noticed much at all. What else should I look for? Could her behaviour also be seen as disinterest? Maybe she gets a vibe I like her but doesnt feel the same.., she is older... I wonder... Is she on any social media? If yes, then you can try to message her on there.
loverboy69 Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 I don't understand a girl I know. I have known her longer than others. Yet it seems her behaviour makes me feel bad. She can be very nice kind, friendly and very polite to me often but then other days it's like she less so. For example if we are in a group, and I'm talking she won't initiate nor will she get involved in the conversation, she goes quiet. When I speak spro her she often just giggles, like a polite giggle and that's about it. Occasionally she will initiate something but not carry it on. When I say something funny and others laugh, she won't again get involved and she will just laugh to herself. And if others make fun of me she will laugh also. I have a crush on this girl, so It doesn't make me feel great. Then when I leave the room, she totally changes, she becomes louder, talkative more and laughs at what the other guys are saying. This again changes when I come into the room. When I ask her a question to try and include she just gives me a one word reply but again when I go she becomes more open and loud with the others. It bothers me quite a bit because it feels like I have done something bad to her, and therefore makes me more withdrawn towards her. I smile a lot in general and try and make her smile back which she does quite a bit. Girls I think her behaviour seems like she doesn't like me much? But I dont know why it changes, should I just let her be? Don't worry about how social she seems to be with others. The key here is that she treats you differently. It either means you are special to her or she hates you and I doubt the latter.
Author Fernville Posted December 24, 2015 Author Posted December 24, 2015 Don't worry about how social she seems to be with others. The key here is that she treats you differently. It either means you are special to her or she hates you and I doubt the latter. Hmm but the fact I have known her the longest yet another guy she initiates conversation with and carries it on. On the rare occasion she does initiate conversation she doesn't keep it going and either fake laughs or walks away. I read that if she was into you she would keep eye on you when talking. She's always mostly looking at something else usually in the other direction. She also talks quiet to me and more sedate more than others. She is 5 + yrs older.
Glitters Posted December 24, 2015 Posted December 24, 2015 She sounds shy and that's how most shy women act around the guy they like
Author Fernville Posted December 26, 2015 Author Posted December 26, 2015 She sounds shy and that's how most shy women act around the guy they like Okay thanks. I guess she is kinda shy but it depends on the situation.
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