tsac06 Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Hi guys, so I need some help in this scenario. I have had a few conversation with a guy I met online a year ago. At the time he started dating some other girl for a brief time so we lost in touch because I just backed up. Recently I've started to add him on Facebook and Instagram. Left him likes and comments as compliments to get attention. Really haven't been responsive and I sent him a message on Messenger to ask some advice on investing to see if we could start conversation again (no response). So he recently rented out an apartment close to where I work and I wanted to sent him flowers as congrats for the new place and wishing him happy holidays (with just my initials). Not sure if that is creepy? just want to send a nice gesture. Thoughts? I suck at this online and dating thing. I feel like no matter how much I try I never seem to get the attention of a guy I like or notice me. maybe I am just liking and looking at the wrong place? thank you for your feedback. open to suggestions.
kitty12345 Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Wait a couple of days for his reply then see
lilmissjava Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 If he hasn't responded to your initial attempts at getting noticed, he most likely never will. I wouldn't send anything to his new place and look for someone new. You don't even know this guy and sending flowers would yes, be creepy.
truth_seeker Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 OP, from what you posted, you are quite obsessed with him. It could be turning him off. I'm not trying to hurt your feelings but if you're really attractive, he would be responding to you right away. If a really attractive woman is hitting up a guy, the guy will respond... unless the he feels the woman is crazy and will not touch it.
Author tsac06 Posted December 21, 2015 Author Posted December 21, 2015 @kitty12345 it's been past a couple days. I think I just need to move on. @ lilmissjava Thanks for the advice. so true. Thank you both for the advice.
VeveCakes Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 Facebook and Instagram are not "online dating" Online dating is using a dating website - or something like Tinder. Do not send flowers. On to the next one...
Zippy2000 Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 1 Yet this guy a year ago! 2 You backed off. 3 You then add him on Facebook and Instagram. 4 You give him "Likes" and comments and compliments. Hes not responsive. You then send him a message on Messenger. My thoughts? Well you had your chance a year ago. Hes NO LONGER interested and you dont know if hes currently still dating this other girl. You`ve made mistake after mistake and not taking note thats he not responding to you. To send flowers? Do you want me to add that to number 5 on your list? Stop making more mistakes and let it be. If he wants to be with you. He`ll contact you. You had your chance a year ago.
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