petergaridas Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 if a girl is in a relationship with a guy for 2 years and it is very serious and it is going downhill. you like another guy whome you see as a soul mate ( not infituation) or and you decide to end the relationship with the guy you are with right now. will you cry when you end it and if yes is it because you dont want to hurt him or because you still have feelings for him
Toodaloo Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 I don't understand your question. So Girl dumps guy 1 for guy 2 and while dumping guy 1 she crys? She probably is upset. Upset that it didn't work out, upset that its ended, upset that she is hurting him. Upset that she is hurting herself. If you are Guy one. Don't think too much into it. She has gone off with another guy so time to leave her be and let her go. Even is she does come back do you really want her to knowing that when it gets rough she is just going to go off with other blokes? Get down the gym etc, look after yourself and once you have stopped hurting go and meet new women. If you are Guy two. Good luck to you mate. Shouldn't go sniffing around women in relationships... Lets hope and cross fingers that history doesn't repeat itself eh... 1
Gaeta Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 The ending of a long relationship is always sad even when your feelings have died a long time ago. Her crying doesn't mean she still has feelings for you, it just means she is sad it's the end of something that was once good and she is sad for hurting you. 5
d0nnivain Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 The end of any relationship is painful by sheer virtue of the fact that it's over. In the situation you describe, when the dumper is moving straight into the next relationship, assuming that dumpr is not a sociopath, the tears are because the dumper feels bad about hurting the dumpee's feelings not because the dumper still wants to continue the relationship. 2
Erik30 Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 The dumper won't cry in this situation, because she already checked out of the relationship a while ago. The girl was preparing on how she would end it. She will actually be relieved that they finally had that difficult conversation. She's not crying, she's too busy having fun with the new guy
ExpatInItaly Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 The dumper won't cry in this situation, because she already checked out of the relationship a while ago. The girl was preparing on how she would end it. She will actually be relieved that they finally had that difficult conversation. She's not crying, she's too busy having fun with the new guy I have to interject and disagree. I am proof that the opposite is possible. Many years ago, I broke up with a long-term, live-in boyfriend, and yes, I'd met someone new. It is true that I'd checked out of the relationship before it was actually over. But I still cried when I finally broke up with him; I hated knowing I had hurt him and felt terribly guilty. I was sad I wouldn't see his family again, sad that I couldn't make myself feel the same way anymore. So it is indeed possible that the dumper might be emotional during that awful breakup conversation.
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