healthyhopes Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 I caught feelings for my friends with benefits and then broke it off, because he didn't return them. He said there was a very low chance of us ever dating. At this point in time we talked every single night for a couple of hours. I cut off contact for about 2-3 weeks and then slowly initiated again, because I missed him. During this time he kept fishing for attention and attempting to make me jealous, trying to talk to me, etc. The last time we talked was about four days ago, where he came on very strong and attempted to directly make me jealous (I was talking to Jen till 1 am last night...). He mentioned the time we were fwb. Then we texted for a couple of hours and he came on strong then too. I saw him in class the next day but I kind of talked to other people more than him... About four days later, today, I texted him first and there was little to no flirting at all. He seemed uninterested and didn't ask me questions. He replied 5-20 minutes late to every text and eventually said he was going to drive, and said that he had to go. I told him to text me later and he hasn't replied yet. It's been about 30 minutes. Do you think he's busy? Do I have a chance?
Shadowburn Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 FBW don't become real relationships. He honestly told you he doesn't see you dating. What else do you need to know? You know the truth already. Cut him off and let "Jen" to become his piece of ass, if she really has no respect for herself. I don't get FBW arrangement at all, men seem to be the only ones getting all the benefits while women just devalue themselves. I don't remember ever seeing a post here where men in FWB situation would be concerned about possibility of dating a woman he is sleeping with. Stop putting out, girl. Find the guy who'd date you first, then give him sex.
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