GingerVixen Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 (edited) So I have met this guy online four months ago. We automatically hit it off. Great talk and great mental connection. We live in different countries. When I went to his country, he couldn't meet because he had other plans. He apologiZed later on and always says he regrets not having met me. Anyway, after I came back home we were talking again and he kept asking me.when I would visit him.again but I told him.I honestly Dont know (and yes I Dont know when my next vacations will be). I realized he started texting me less and less frequently. I once talked to him about that and he said I was overreacting. Well after that talk he stopped initiating conversation and after 10 days of non contact I texted him. HE replied instantly, sent me.pictures of his trip (he is travelling), flirted with me, wanted to know when I am going to visit him.again, we talked about polítics and life for almost one hour and a half and then he had to.leave and said "great chatting as always". Anyway... He didnt seem.uninterested or cold, just the contrary. I am not the clingy OE needy type of girl but I wanna understand his behavior. Do you think he is Losing interest in me or maybe he is just texting me.less because he knows we live too far from.each other and there is no chance in the short term for us to meet? What do you think? Edited December 20, 2015 by GingerVixen
mortensorchid Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 You went to another COUNTRY to meet a guy and he didn't even bother to show up?! I have met people who traveled to other cities and states regionally (I have been one of them), and I even knew a gal who met a man in California (she and I lived in Ohio) and she flew out to see him for a four day weekend. And know what? None of these women (or myself) are with the guys they traveled for. The one I knew who went to California for that guy she met said that at the end of the four day weekend, he said he wasn't sure how he felt about things. Then a week or two later he called and told her he was in love with a woman he was sitting next to on an airplane for an hour. She didn't understand how/why it was that she never heard from him again after that phone call. I would say to you as I would say to her (or anyone who is in this situation), surely you are not wasting any more time on a jackass like that, are you? I mean I have been stood up, blown off, treated badly, broken up with via email, etc. But for a person to not show up after you traveled to another country to see them? Surely you didn't think he's going to make up for this other than the apology he gave you, do you? MOVE ON.
Author GingerVixen Posted December 20, 2015 Author Posted December 20, 2015 You went to another COUNTRY to meet a guy and he didn't even bother to show up?! I have met people who traveled to other cities and states regionally (I have been one of them), and I even knew a gal who met a man in California (she and I lived in Ohio) and she flew out to see him for a four day weekend. And know what? None of these women (or myself) are with the guys they traveled for. The one I knew who went to California for that guy she met said that at the end of the four day weekend, he said he wasn't sure how he felt about things. Then a week or two later he called and told her he was in love with a woman he was sitting next to on an airplane for an hour. She didn't understand how/why it was that she never heard from him again after that phone call. I would say to you as I would say to her (or anyone who is in this situation), surely you are not wasting any more time on a jackass like that, are you? I mean I have been stood up, blown off, treated badly, broken up with via email, etc. But for a person to not show up after you traveled to another country to see them? Surely you didn't think he's going to make up for this other than the apology he gave you, do you? MOVE ON. I didnt travel to his country to meet him. I traveled for business, he asked me.out but then he canceled because he was busy the day I went to his City.
mortensorchid Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 Despite the situation (glad you cleared that up), he is just looking for a texting buddy or someone to talk to on the internet rather than meet face to face or have any other relationship with beyond that. At least recognize these facts or not. A guy who likes you or any other woman cannot wait to contact her and it seems like you are initiating things with him.
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