Xiang Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 Hey i've been friends with this chick for years. I am like her bigger brother and she calls me as such, wich is perfectly fine. Until recently i have developed some feelings for her. I am unsure if she has done the same. She has a boyfriend mind you. We were supposed to go out with some buds who ditched on us, so we ended up going alone, just the two of us. Sure we are close friends, but we never got out just the two of us, and now it was kinda weird. Also i had not seen her in 3 years, so maybe she just missed me? She would always wrap her arm arround mine as we walked, wich is okay i guess. We went to eat and she wanted me to make her dish, and pick everything that goes with it, wanted me to do a lot of stuff for her actually that were rather silly. Like, can you help me tie this zipper, etc >_> She was acting like we were on a date. We went to the movies and as we were sitting on the couch waiting for the doors to open. She was way to close with her face to mine, invading me much. I wanted to kiss her so bad, but i didn't. Friends and bf and all that, tension was high. Not to mention she kept touching my leg. So we had a fun night, then went on home. Tired, i decided to crash at her place, slept separately since she has a roommate. So she took a bath and we ended up on the couch again, talking. She was in her bathroom engaged in our chat, slowly rubbing her feet. She was like totally into me, i think >_>. And i was like 'nah, cant be, she's my best friend'. All was okay after that, slept, went home. Question, was she actually hitting on me? Or maybe i am like reading this wrong.
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 She sounds like a bit of a flirt who loves male attention, but the biggest indicator that you are reading too much into this is that she refers to you as a big brother. I don't know any female who would refer to guy she has romantic interest in as a big brother. Big brother = friend zone.
Author Xiang Posted December 20, 2015 Author Posted December 20, 2015 She sounds like a bit of a flirt who loves male attention, but the biggest indicator that you are reading too much into this is that she refers to you as a big brother. I don't know any female who would refer to guy she has romantic interest in as a big brother. Big brother = friend zone. I'm not so sure that is completely relevant. Its just a title, sometimes used as you say. Sometimes because she can't yet give me something better since she has a BF. Maybe i am overthinking, who knows. Just to note, her curent boyfriend was just a 'bro' before they started shaggin. Why i say it does not matter.
BonerFide Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 It sounds like she's using you for a bit of excitement on the side of her relationship, as you're giving her attention and both having fun with a bit of flirting. If you want to encourage it then go ahead, but keep in mind she has a boyfriend and you know that, so even though she's in the wrong deeper than you, you're still being a bit of a jerk. I wouldn't read so much into it and assume she's into you; that may be the case, but sometimes girls are that flirty without many feelings involved at all. I remember in my last R when my ex was being distant I'd get flirty with other guys. Dumb I know, and I regret it now, but that **** happens.
Cherryz Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 Seem like she maybe was flirting a bit with you, But she got a bf so.............. no option!
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