GH3 Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, Im upset about it because I really grew to love him, but he didn't feel the same. I don't want to enter another relationship for at least a year, but I seem to be more affected by this break up than past ones. Mostly because we spent so much time together and we got along so well, we're actually still friends and I feel strongly towards him. I have a feeling that I'm not going to forget him anytime soon, so when I do think about him and get sad I talk to guys online. My question is if that's ok or not healthy, to distract myself by talking to other guys.
Ic1 Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 I think it would be unhealthy for you to not to talk to men now. Even in a relationship, not talking to other men? Nothing wrong with talking to them. It's just not wrong to cheat with them.
11012015 Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 My boyfriend broke up with me a week ago, Im upset about it because I really grew to love him, but he didn't feel the same. I don't want to enter another relationship for at least a year, but I seem to be more affected by this break up than past ones. Mostly because we spent so much time together and we got along so well, we're actually still friends and I feel strongly towards him. I have a feeling that I'm not going to forget him anytime soon, so when I do think about him and get sad I talk to guys online. My question is if that's ok or not healthy, to distract myself by talking to other guys. Do you realize that by flirting with other guys only after a week you are guaranteeing he is never going to come back to you?
Ic1 Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 Do you realize that by flirting with other guys only after a week you are guaranteeing he is never going to come back to you? Please cite the references that brought you to this post. The choice of words and structure of your sentence implies you have a belief of male dominance and female submission. Feel free to ask for reference material.
Author GH3 Posted December 20, 2015 Author Posted December 20, 2015 Do you realize that by flirting with other guys only after a week you are guaranteeing he is never going to come back to you? Well the thing is is that either way, he told me that he's simply not attracted to me as much anymore... Mostly because we started our relationship on a not-so-serious foundation. So I did grow to love him but I'm not going to wait around for him if he has no intention of taking me seriously. I'm through with the emotional roller coaster that came with a casual relationship.
Author GH3 Posted December 20, 2015 Author Posted December 20, 2015 Haha well I know it's wrong to cheat, but I meant to ask if talking to men this soon after a break up.
mightycpa Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 Everything you do with other people after a breakup is fair game, no matter how soon it is.
dads new boyfriend Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 You're never going to get over him while you continue keeping contact with him, and you're single now so why wouldn't you talk to other guys.
Survivor12 Posted December 20, 2015 Posted December 20, 2015 Personally, I would advise waiting a while before accepting any dates, and Beware of falling too fast, too soon. Be honest about your intentions. Ask yourself how you would feel if some guy were using you for an ego boost but is still hung up on his ex?
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