Syncerity Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 dudes swear they so slick sumtimes...most guys i talk to, be it trying to know them so we can mayb perhaps go out later, or just plain ol friendwise...they always at some point or another always bring up oh i went out today and this chick asked for my number, or i was at the mall and this chick was eyeballin me tellin me im cute, yea this chick like me blah blah blah...now they dont be saying that earlier when they tellin me they like me or something, they say it after i be like oh u like me, thats coo and change the subject...why do dudes do that...is that supposed to be their way of usin reverse pyschology to get me to like them..kinda like u dont want me, but someone else does stuff
noname Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by Syncerity dudes swear they so slick sumtimes...most guys i talk to, be it trying to know them so we can mayb perhaps go out later, or just plain ol friendwise...they always at some point or another always bring up oh i went out today and this chick asked for my number, or i was at the mall and this chick was eyeballin me tellin me im cute, yea this chick like me blah blah blah...now they dont be saying that earlier when they tellin me they like me or something, they say it after i be like oh u like me, thats coo and change the subject...why do dudes do that...is that supposed to be their way of usin reverse pyschology to get me to like them..kinda like u dont want me, but someone else does stuff not all dudes do. try telling them that it bothers you instead of being silent about it. maybe that will make them stop. communication is the key. if they don't stop... move on. sounds like you need to start meeting some different men if you keep getting this. ask yourself if this is the kind of guy i always seem attracted to? then try something different...
Author Syncerity Posted June 1, 2005 Author Posted June 1, 2005 thats the thing tho..it doesnt bother me, and it doesnt make me attracted to/want them anymore that before they even decided they wanted to say it...so its like they diggin a hole for themselves...and im not really attracted to that type of man..its what comes to me...if i had my way i WOULD choose NORMAL guys...but usually when they get to that point of tryna make me jealous for no reason, im like um i gotta go now,and i take the nearest exit on my right..
noname Posted June 2, 2005 Posted June 2, 2005 Originally posted by Syncerity thats the thing tho..it doesnt bother me, and it doesnt make me attracted to/want them anymore that before they even decided they wanted to say it...so its like they diggin a hole for themselves...and im not really attracted to that type of man..its what comes to me...if i had my way i WOULD choose NORMAL guys...but usually when they get to that point of tryna make me jealous for no reason, im like um i gotta go now,and i take the nearest exit on my right.. sounds like you got it under control then... what i meant by re-evaluating was exactly that. if you try something different, like maybe hanging out in different places, trying a different caliber of men, etc. maybe something different will come to you. and i feel the need to mention this... don't judge every man who tells you this stuff as the kind of man who is trying to draw you closer by jealousy. it might just be that they are open with you. i tell my woman every once in a while, and she tells me, not because we want to make each other jealous, but because she is like my best friend and friends tell each other what is going on in their day. i am not saying that that is your case, but there may be a time when someone feels so close to you that they share their ego trip for the day, and i don't want you to exit to the right just because you misinterpret his intentions. bottom line is not every man is the same and you have to read everybody different...
Author Syncerity Posted June 2, 2005 Author Posted June 2, 2005 Originally posted by noname sounds like you got it under control then... what i meant by re-evaluating was exactly that. if you try something different, like maybe hanging out in different places, trying a different caliber of men, etc. maybe something different will come to you. and i feel the need to mention this... don't judge every man who tells you this stuff as the kind of man who is trying to draw you closer by jealousy. it might just be that they are open with you. i tell my woman every once in a while, and she tells me, not because we want to make each other jealous, but because she is like my best friend and friends tell each other what is going on in their day. i am not saying that that is your case, but there may be a time when someone feels so close to you that they share their ego trip for the day, and i don't want you to exit to the right just because you misinterpret his intentions. bottom line is not every man is the same and you have to read everybody different... yea ur right...gotta read everybody differently..ill keep that they might not be tryna make me jealous line in my head when it happens again
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