GENOS Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 My ex and I were on a relationship for 2 months and 7 days, I know this sounds like a really short relationship but the impacts of the afterwards break up 15 days ago were enormous. it was a long distance relationship but not much of a distance it was only like 90 km away from each other, so we did spend a couple days together which made me fall in love with her even more before one day after a really bad argument she decided to break up with me because it seemed to her like it was never gonna work between us even though we were obviously very deep in love with each other, she said that we fight way too much and that I don't respect her or love her as a person ( most of the fights were about her sexual behavior ). I tried to stop her saying that it could work between us and that I love her so much and don't wanna give up on her because I really did, but she gave me the final blow when she said that she no longer have feelings for me ( how could u just stop loving someone overnight ? ), well anyways we suggested to just stay friends and it was going well until I had to ruin it and start bringing up the break up and how she was so cold dealing with it so she apparently decided that the only way we can be friends is if we don't talk for a while,for a month, I didn't want this cause I was afraid it could completely ruin our friendship since I needed her for non-emotional reasons ,so I kept pleading like the freaking dork I am and she blocked my ass from every social media out there. It's been 15 days now and I never had such a hard time coping with a break up before, I randomly keep having mixed feelings of anger regret and sadness and I I just miss talking to her, I can't focus on my exams and for some reason I just can't get her out of my mind.. I don't know what to expect from this long ass post but I just have no idea what to do
Reels Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Try 3 years, you will still remember her if you truly loved her. You need to find those things, that made you excited before you knew her.
Used77 Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Tuff luck man.. It's harder durring the holidays to breakup. If say you need to focus the energy in another place; idol hands and all that. Time for a new hobby to keep the mind busy?
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