Caligirlygal24 Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 Hi All, I am very new to this so please excuse me if I do something wrong. Okay well here is my love issue... I was dating this man for about a year and we broke up because he told me that I wasn't giving him what he wanted such as he had to pay for dates and pick me up and he lives about 20 minutes away. I am an a dancer and he told me that once I get my life together to give him all. But durning that year he had lied to me and cheated on me several times. I put up with it cause he was a body builder and I know that is shalllow but it meant alot to me. We are an interacial couple I am puerto rican and he is a afrian american man who is 29 with a good job. Well recently for the past 6 months or so he has came to my club that I work at and has begged me for another chance so I finally gave in and last month was our first real date. Well we had sex and it was protected and things were okay. He called me last Thursday and told me he had an STD? I told him well I am clean I just had my exam and everything came up good and he said well "**** happens" and that he didn't cheat on me since we weren't really together? I said okay whatever and he went that Friday to NOrth Carloina for the holiday. He has called me twice and told me that he bought me something and can't wait to see me again? I told him before he left that he cheated on me because I didn't have anything and that he got it after me due to the long period of time we had it last month and he just felt this on Monday he told me? So i don't know what to do I haven't returned his calls and he has been going to my voicemail alot so do i return his call to tell him to leave me alone or do i wait to hear form him again?? Thanks.
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by Caligirlygal24 I am very new to this so please excuse me if I do something wrong. Okay well here is my love issue... Welcome aboard! But durning that year he had lied to me and cheated on me several times. I put up with it cause he was a body builder and I know that is shalllow but it meant alot to me. Yup, it's shallow. And I bet there are plenty of bodybuilders out there who are nice and don't lie or cheat. Except when it comes to the drug tests (joke!). He called me last Thursday and told me he had an STD? he didn't cheat on me since we weren't really together? Boy this guy is a catch - he just gets better and better So i don't know what to do... do i return his call to tell him to leave me alone or do i wait to hear form him again?? If you want more lies and cheating - or if you'd like a nice STD - go ahead. Otherwise, I'd suggest you look elsewhere. Buena suerte!
Weird Posted June 2, 2005 Posted June 2, 2005 Tell the guy to take a hike. WTF would you want to date a guy who apparently is humping around and is now infested with a STD? Nasty.... There are plenty of other penises out there...and many are attached to other bodybuilders. heh
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