mmalost Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 Ive been really almost obsessed with this girl for a really long time, and I finally got the courage to do some thing about it, and one day after she was getting out of school, she said hi to me, and I said hi to her, then an ICE cream truck pulls by the block, and I offer to buy her an ice cream, we walk over to the ice cream truck, and she starts talking to one of her friends that was hanging out by the truck, and she kinda completely ignores me standing there about to buy her ice cream, so I just whimpered away to my friend accross the street. My friend Was talking to some girl, and my friend Tom just hold him that I was trying to " buy this girl an ice cream" and she told me " you do know shes gay right " I said what?!?! no way... she is no way a lesbian, and then she kept on saying she was. This girl I am obsessed with I know had a boyfriend in the past, but also she sometimes elludes to being. She is very cute, and she deosnt have a boyfriend, i always see her with her girlfriend hanging out, she plays baseball for the school, and dresses like a tom boy kinda. I dont know what to say really it happened today, and i feel like ****, I really like her, and I wanna know for sure if she just deosnt like me, or is a lesbian. And after she was done talking to the kid she passed by me and said sorry i didnt want any ice cream smiled and went back to her friends. I told her through email that back in HS I had a huge crush on her, and she already knows I Like her, so should I give it up, or go back to the school and try again, or ill just be annoying her? Also how can I find out if shes a lesbian or not, or bi sexual.
Pyro Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 Hi mmalost, The simplest way would be to just tell her how you feel. Let her know that you like her and ask her out on a date. You should get your answer right there. I don't think that she will be annoyed of you. If anything, she will be flattered by how you feel about her. You don't need to feel like ****. If she says no, you know that there are a million fish in the sea. Good luck my friend.
Curt Posted June 1, 2005 Moderators Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by mmalost I Like her, so should I give it up, or go back to the school and try again, or ill just be annoying her? Also how can I find out if shes a lesbian or not, or bi sexual. Simple Answer Here: Move on She may be a Lesbian and she may not She does not appear interested in a relationship Curt
blue16 Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 I told her through email that back in HS I had a huge crush on her, and she already knows I Like her... Theres ur answer right there, she knows you like her but she isn't doing anything to reciprocate. The main reason why I believe you wanna find out if she is a lesbian or not is because you can save rejection and your ego by saying "Oh she doesn't like me cuz she's a lesbian." when that may or may not be the case. She isn't interested, and whatever the reason may be it shouldn't matter...find another girl. Good luck.
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