shortee Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 Just wondering if a girl should call or text the dude first? I think the guy should text or call. But what if a guy tells you to text him later? And this is a guy I've known for a long time, dated on/off, ect. He tells you to text him later. Should I do it or still wait for him to do it?
fitnessfan365 Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 Here's the way that I see it. The majority of the time a guy plans dates, pays for dates, and initiates sex. So the least a woman can do is initiate texting. She reaches out which shows interest and that she wants another date. Then the guy takes the hint and asks her out again.
GR4 Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 Fitnessfan is right. Men want to feel wanted and appreciated as much as you girls do. I've never understood this thinking that men should call/text first, organise dates, pay for dates... What does it matter. If you like him text him. Why does everyone like to complicate things? 1
SwordofFlame Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 If a woman can be president of a major country, CEO of a major corporation...a woman can text a guy first.
Polar965 Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 The guy I'm dating now I usually initiate texts. He usually initiates dates and takes care of that end.
Author shortee Posted December 18, 2015 Author Posted December 18, 2015 The guy I'm dating now I usually initiate texts. He usually initiates dates and takes care of that end. What do you say when you initiate texts? Cause I've never had to do that before. But then I am not good at meeting guys either so lol.
Bobbi7 Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 As long as he tells you to text him, just text him that ONE TIME. Afterward, let him come to you and have him plan things. But if you have to do 99% of the contacting, dump him.
mortensorchid Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 Don't do that. Unless it's a moment when you just met, exchanged numbers, then he said text me so I have this number in my phone. After that, done. He should take the lead here. If he doesn't he's not interested in you, or not that into you, or looking to have his ego stroked.
GR4 Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 Don't do that. Unless it's a moment when you just met, exchanged numbers, then he said text me so I have this number in my phone. After that, done. He should take the lead here. If he doesn't he's not interested in you, or not that into you, or looking to have his ego stroked. By your logic that must mean women are never interested in us guys if you never take the lead.
katiegrl Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 By your logic that must mean women are never interested in us guys if you never take the lead. Popcorn anyone?
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