coin Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 I have doubts of my gf. I think that sometimes she is a labile person. I can type some situations. We are together for 3 years. Sometimes i do not know if she is loyal to me. There was some situations. She make a new friend (girl) , this girl come to us in our flat and start ignoring me and disrespecting me in some way. I just met this girl and she have no reason to act like this on me. But what bothers me is my gf that she cant see this, or she doesent care of her disrespecting me, and my gf continue enjoying her company, laughing with her. I been in couple simillare situations like this. When i ask my gf to go out with me at night in disco or some party, she dont want to go, she rather stays in flat. But she want to come with her friends out in disco and so on. I train kickbox and i like this sport so much, but my gf never come to watch me on any match. I asked her why, her answer is that she is shy to come and be only girl who watch the match. I never tell her that she need to watch me. There was couple of more similar situations, and the problem is that sometimes i have doubts about her. Is she loyal to me, or i have some paranoias? I love her with all my hearth and i can give my life for her. I dont take this to personal, but sometimes bothers me.
Author coin Posted December 18, 2015 Author Posted December 18, 2015 Can someone give me some opinion? Am I over-reacting? Thank you..
contel3 Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 Hard to say. As a woman I understand how awkward it can be to be the only woman in a room. She's just shy. Going out is more fun with friends so I also get where she's coming from. I would be most bothered by her friends disrespecting me. You'd have to elaborate in more detail, but generally it's not a good sign when their friends treat you with disrespect. I think you're unhappy in your relationship and are looking for a way out...
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