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It's been a month and a half since my 2 year relationship ended. I've recently started putting myself back at there, and about a week ago my friend and I started hanging out with these two girls we met at a cafe (we're all in college). They invited themselves back to my room, and the four of us talked until four in the morning. The next night, the four of us all went out for pizza, and this time they invited us to hang out in their room (again, until about four in the morning). I couldn't tell which of them I liked more, or which one, if either, liked ME more.

 

That was Friday and Saturday night. This past week was finals, so I hadn't asked to hang out with either of them since, and now I am home for a month. I messaged one of them about five hours ago, simply telling her she should add me on snapchat. She immediately read it and has since not replied or added me on snapchat. Oof.

 

I just can't believe she would want to hang out for multiple hours on two different occasions, then not even want to be friends on the most casual form of social media.

 

This all seems a bit silly, to be worrying about something as trivial as Snapchat, but I have been out of the game for over two years, and I really thought I was at least friends with these girls. I've found that even if girls have no interest in talking to you, they'll still give you their number as to not be rude.

 

Did I misread everything? Was it her friend who liked me and should I try adding her instead? Or was I just some weird guy that they both wished would go away?

Edited by rjblak13
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It's only been 5 hours.... she could be busy or was also talking to other people. Maybe you should have just asked her if she wanted to hang out again in your message. She already knows you, no point in only asking to add you

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Maybe she was just busy

Maybe she isn't into you

But either way you shouldn't care so much

You only met them twice , stop dwelling on it and get out meet more girls

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