TheLoveBelow92 Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 Ok, if you can just read over my threads real quick and it will give you an insight. broke up 5 1/2 months ago. broke no contact yesterday after 2 1/2 months. Met up with her about an hour ago to work things out with me, her and friends. basically she told me all the reasons for the break up. that she loved me then and feels nothing for me now but thinks we can be good friends. said shes been dating a guy 3 months now but is taking it slow because shes not ready and said she only kissed two guys. ive been dating and the same aswel but I couldnt because I still love her. I feel so crap, she said you hurt me so much it made it so much easier to let go. I feel so in the dumps at the minute. I cant believe it. I dont know what to do why cant I move on she never wronged me I made all the mistakes, my hands are tied. I dont know i feel like just curling up into a ball and disappearing for a while, how do people get through this, why is letting go and moving on near impossible, how can i let go and move on
SixxChick Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 Dude, sorry. She's given you everything you need to know. I don't mean to sound harsh, but she is coming with an owner's manual. It's time to move on for your own good. It will take time to get over the brutal reality. That's what we are all doing in here. Best of luck to you. Stay strong.
OmahaDivorce Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 I'm really sorry about the path that things have taken with your ex. When my wife left me for my best friend, I was in a whirlwind of emotions. I wanted my wife back because I loved her so much, but at the same time, I had a big void in my heart that I felt needed to be filled. I dated for a little while but then decided that I was not going to jump from one relationship to another. I was single and it would be good for me to learn how to be single again. I started going to events like Vino van Gogh, Pinot's Pallet, plays, and musicals by myself and really found that I liked that kind of stuff. What do you like to do with your time? Now is a great opportunity to do more of that, and if you don't know, now is a great opportunity to find out.
Author TheLoveBelow92 Posted December 18, 2015 Author Posted December 18, 2015 Dude, sorry. She's given you everything you need to know. I don't mean to sound harsh, but she is coming with an owner's manual. It's time to move on for your own good. It will take time to get over the brutal reality. That's what we are all doing in here. Best of luck to you. Stay strong. Yeah I just held onto to hope too long wanted to give it another go and couldnt accept it that If i felt this way she must too, how do you go back to zero and feel nothing, she has, I went out of my way to help her and friends and done so much for her and to br treated and bad mouthed like I am, im the biggest fool 1
SixxChick Posted December 21, 2015 Posted December 21, 2015 You shouldn't feel like a fool, and there is no going back to zero. You, like many of us, just gave your all to the wrong person. The only thing you can walk away from this with is knowing that you have the capacity to love. And you will be more cautious in the future and maybe heed the warning signs. Because I'm pretty sure they were there. At least they were for me. It's a very harsh learning experience, but we all must move on from those who have made it abundantly clear that that is what they want to do. NC. And take care of YOU right now. 1
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