amkxoxo Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 So I am so nervous my boyfriend might be cheating on me. A little before he met me he met this girl that goes to my college. He thought she was cute but when he hung out with her, he didn't love her personality to just wanted to be friends. He claims he wasn't sure if she liked him or not. I think she did, because he told me one day they went out for frozen yogurt and then she kept saying how hungry for dinner she was. To me, thats a hint that she wanted him to take her for dinner. He took her to his house and made her food instead. He and I started dating casually. It wasn't a big deal. A few months ago he and I got into a relationship. Our relationship isn't perfect. There were times when he was more in love with me than I was with him. But we have been trying to work things out. We haven't had sex because I am a virgin and want to wait. He makes it clear he isn't happy with this and really wants to have sex. He has slept with a lot of women and claims women will usually sleep with him on date one or close after. I have to go home form school for a week because of the holidays and the school is closed. Students had to be out this morning. I am leaving in a few days from now, since I am staying with a friend for a while. I would have thought my boyfriend would have wanted to see me a lot this week, but he hasn't. Monday he was busy, Tuesday he had plans with a friend. When I tried to make plans with him Wednesday, last night, he told me we could but he needed to know about exact times. I thought this was weird. Something came up on my end and I cancelled on him. Later on in the night I asked him what he was doing. He said his friend and he were supposed to hangout but SHE cancelled on him. I figured it must be one of his good girl friends whom he has known his whole life. When I asked who, he said he was going to see that girl form my school. I couldn't believe he was still talking to her. Why? He is with me. Why would they hangout just the two of them? Its suspicious. Why when he met me would he still be "friends" with her. He clearly talks to her since they made plans. And when I thought more about it, she must have had to leave this morning like all the other students, so she was going to see him the night before she leaves for school break? That seems suspicious. Why would she want to see him and he see her before she goes home if they aren't together? You would want to see the person you are in a relationship with the night before you go home, like I want to see him this week. He was going to hangout with her and not try and hangout with me thought he knows I am leaving this weekend. It doesn't make sense. I am worried he is hooking up with her. Maybe because he is sex deprived from me. I just can't believe it. He doesn't remind me of a cheater at all. Even if he isn't cheating, its suspicious he is even friends with her. Its like he is keeping his options open in case he and I fail. What do people think? Do I have reason to worry?
katiegrl Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 >>So I am so nervous my boyfriend might be cheating on me... I got this far and stopped reading. Based on all your past threads....why in gawd's name are you still with this person? Jesus.
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 Given how annoyed he has been about having to wait for sex, as well as the all the communication issues you have been describing in your relationship, I would have to say that you do have a reason to be worried. He is going out with a girl he dated (someone you had no idea he even spoke to anymore). I wouldn't be surprised if he was cheating already or just keeping her around as a backup.
mssweet Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 I've been involved in a similar situation in the past. When a guy says he's hanging out with a girl who is just a "friend"....she's not just a friend. They're most likely hooking up. Listen to your intuition. If you feel something's off, it probably is.
kendahke Posted December 19, 2015 Posted December 19, 2015 this relationship of yours hasn't been working for quite a long time for reasons that have nothing to do with this latest trick. It's just one more indication that you need to just spend some time on your own to resolve a whole bunch of issues you keep starting threads over. 1
Recommended Posts