Hopeful30 Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 What u suggest i do?? In eating hes chillin. I smiled he smiled. Next? 1
Toodaloo Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 What u suggest i do?? In eating hes chillin. I smiled he smiled. Next? Say hello and smile again... Do a quick little "embarrassed" girly smile... Then drop your fork on the floor... if he rushes to get you a clean one yay he will ask you out. If you have to call the waiter he isn't going to so enjoy your food
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 17, 2015 Author Posted December 17, 2015 Hes sitting on the far opposite corner
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 What u suggest i do?? In eating hes chillin. I smiled he smiled. Next? Cart your laptop over to him, and show him that you just put this post on the net. (you might want to shield the NAME of this website though) it will flatter him, AND suggest that you can laugh at yourself !!
gaius Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Ask him for some napkins, or condiments on his table. Come up with some excuse to engage him but still make him do the work. I've seen women try to approach guys and do the work themselves and it gives me douche chills everytime.
Toodaloo Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Thats fine - if he sees you in "distress" he will help... Drop that damn fork - preferably while he is watching! 1
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 17, 2015 Author Posted December 17, 2015 Cart your laptop over to him, and show him that you just put this post on the net. (you might want to shield the NAME of this website though) it will flatter him, AND suggest that you can laugh at yourself !! Lol thats actually a good idea Im on lunch fron work so i gotta run. Any way i can slip him a note maybe?
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 17, 2015 Author Posted December 17, 2015 Thats fine - if he sees you in "distress" he will help... Drop that damn fork - preferably while he is watching! Im eating a sandwhich! Haha nthing is on my side right now haha
katiegrl Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Thats fine - if he sees you in "distress" he will help... Drop that damn fork - preferably while he is watching! Nah ... too contrived.... Just be genuine and real ....just continuing smiling and making good eye contact.... Agree with gaius' advice... 1
gaius Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Cart your laptop over to him, and show him that you just put this post on the net. (you might want to shield the NAME of this website though) it will flatter him, AND suggest that you can laugh at yourself !! Honestly, that's a really unwise idea. If he doesn't have to work for it he won't value it!
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 17, 2015 Author Posted December 17, 2015 Aww too late guys he just walked out...after a sweet smile. Ugh! Oh well next time. My smiles didnt work or hes taken (with my luck that makes sense lol) Thanks anyways guys
Toodaloo Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Im eating a sandwhich! Haha nthing is on my side right now haha Or drop your phone as you walk by... Give the guy a chance to be a gent!
katiegrl Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 drop something... I don't understand this concept. Does anyone really believe he is going to leave his friend, rush across the room like your knight and shining armor, pick it up for you ... while you gaze into each other's eyes and live happily after after? LOL ....don't count on it. Hopeful, seriously ...next time, walk over, ask him for a napkin, write your number on it, hand it to him with a sweet smile ...then leave. No need to even say a word! If he is interested (and available)..he will call or text. If not, oh well. None of this dropping shyt ....too contrived plus that shyt went out ages ago ....and won't work anyway. Be genuine, real and direct. You are interested. Give him your number, and see if he calls. 4
Toodaloo Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 I don't understand this concept. Does anyone really believe he is going to leave his friend, rush across the room like your knight and shining armor, pick it up for you ... while you gaze into each other's eyes and live happily after after? Know several marriages that have gone on for many years because of this very thing. Know more that start this way than through on line dating... My grandparents for a start... Next time hopeful do SOMETHING. You can write your number on the napkin, you can drop something but for goodness sake do something! 2
kendahke Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 I'd have said run out the door after him and give him your number, but alas! the psychological moment has passed... next time, go after what you want. The worst that can happen is he says "no". 1
Diezel Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Maybe it's because you were online asking strangers what to do that maybe made him think you were too busy and unavailable otherwise. Next time, we can come over and give him a note that says "Yes or No - Mark a checkmark under one of these"
katiegrl Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 (edited) Know several marriages that have gone on for many years because of this very thing. Know more that start this way than through on line dating... My grandparents for a start... Next time hopeful do SOMETHING. You can write your number on the napkin, you can drop something but for goodness sake do something! Your grandparents? Like I said this little game went out ages ago....but hey there are always exceptions I suppose. Most guys I know wouldn't "get it" it though...unless a woman blatantly dropped something where they were close enough where he could conveniently pick it up ...without making a point to rush across the room like an idiot. Then of course, one would have to start an actual convo after.... other than her thanking him. JMO though. That said ...why not just be straightforward and give him your number? Why play those coy games ....which he might not even "get" anyway? Not understanding that ...but to each his own. Edited December 17, 2015 by katiegrl
sportygirl89 Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Sounds like me. There is a guy in my bible study we always happen to sit next to each other. A couple of times our hands have accidentally held hands. I'm not looking or anything for a relationship. If it happens it happens. But its so strange.
VeveCakes Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 I don't understand this concept. Does anyone really believe he is going to leave his friend, rush across the room like your knight and shining armor, pick it up for you ... while you gaze into each other's eyes and live happily after after? LOL ....don't count on it. Hopeful, seriously ...next time, walk over, ask him for a napkin, write your number on it, hand it to him with a sweet smile ...then leave. No need to even say a word! If he is interested (and available)..he will call or text. If not, oh well. None of this dropping shyt ....too contrived plus that shyt went out ages ago ....and won't work anyway. Be genuine, real and direct. You are interested. Give him your number, and see if he calls. I meant so she could bend over and pick it up.... 1
katiegrl Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 I meant so she could bend over and pick it up.... Oh you mean the "bend and snap"? 2
Popsicle Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 It'll never work. Guys need time to "think". Lol 1
sportygirl89 Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 It'll never work. Guys need time to "think". Lol Probably why each time the guy and I accidentally hold hands it doesn't bother him. 1
frus69 Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 People smile at each other all the time,it's just a friendly gesture,doesn't mean he is interested ? 1
DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 Make it known that you're attracted to him, Go up, say hi, ask him out on a date on a whim, Waiting around for your knight in shining armor is a passive stance, Go after the guy who gives you butterflies at the first glance!
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