Jordvn Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 I messaged a girl online, saying that I was into her but she didn't respond. It says that she read it, & then she liked my photos I posted. I don't get it, she accepted my friend request, & liking my photos so I guess she's not giving me the cold shoulder. What action should I take?
d0nnivain Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 You are better off trying to read actual tea leaves then trying to decipher somebody's state of mind based upon texting, lack thereof or liking photos. Only genuine communication through actual words can give you insight. That said, she may be shy or socially awkward.
LookAtThisPOst Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Yeah, I met a woman at a Halloween party, when I added her on Facebook, she accepted, but when I sent her a, "Hey, it was nice meeting you at the Halloween party the other night." I wouldn't get an answer. So I figured she wasn't interested. Then she started "liking" some of my posts...usually it's stuff I write about. I was thinking, "Hm, she is liking my points of view." So I send her another message, saying, "Hey, I noticed you liked <name of whatever I typed>" and try to use that as an intro. Still...no response, but yet she kept LIKING my stuff. I eventually would say to her, "Hey, are you getting my messages?" Still no response, but still "liking"...I eventually unfriended her. Guess it her passive aggressive ways of doing things. lol
Author Jordvn Posted December 17, 2015 Author Posted December 17, 2015 Yeah, I met a woman at a Halloween party, when I added her on Facebook, she accepted, but when I sent her a, "Hey, it was nice meeting you at the Halloween party the other night." I wouldn't get an answer. So I figured she wasn't interested. Then she started "liking" some of my posts...usually it's stuff I write about. I was thinking, "Hm, she is liking my points of view." So I send her another message, saying, "Hey, I noticed you liked <name of whatever I typed>" and try to use that as an intro. Still...no response, but yet she kept LIKING my stuff. I eventually would say to her, "Hey, are you getting my messages?" Still no response, but still "liking"...I eventually unfriended her. Guess it her passive aggressive ways of doing things. lol Wow that sucks. I want to send a 2nd message, but I'm afraid the same thing might happen. I don't want to mess this up, she's pretty hot.
kendahke Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Wow that sucks. I want to send a 2nd message, but I'm afraid the same thing might happen. I don't want to mess this up, she's pretty hot. Have you met her in person? Do you already know her in real life? This might be a fake account and is really a romance scammer using stolen pictures.
dads new boyfriend Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 What action should I take? "Please respond". Repeat every 2 hours until she does. 2
Toodaloo Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 What action should I take? None Move on. Some people "collect" friends on facebook to prove how popular they are. A like on a picture means nothing at all. If you like you can delete her and move on and find someone that takes longer than 3 seconds to actually get to know you... one that speaks and talks and spends time with you... She may look pretty on the outside but from what you have said there is not all that much on the inside... 2
TheArtist Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 If she's getting towards the 200 friends marker then she's probably just collecting them. You told her you liked her, she didn't respond in kind; she's not into you that way. It's up to you whether you keep her as a friend on there as nothing has happened romantically but I personally wouldn't expect it to happen either. 1
VeveCakes Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Try and talk to her outside of Facebook....Facebook is not a dating site. don't read into people "liking" your stuff, it just means they liked what you posted - not necessarily that they like you! 1
katiegrl Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Wow that sucks. I want to send a 2nd message, but I'm afraid the same thing might happen. I don't want to mess this up, **she's pretty hot.**** Yes of course she is ....figured as much. Who cares if she is a kind, decent, honest, respectable human being. Or if she is even interested in *you*. (Which in this case, she isn't). If she is *hot* .....you're in! Hilarious! Wish you luck.... :)
ExpatInItaly Posted December 18, 2015 Posted December 18, 2015 Do you know her in real life, OP? If not, messaging her that you're into her is quite off-putting. If you do, she clearly doesn't feel the same way. She'd have responded otherwise. The "likes" don't really mean anything. Don't bother messaging her again.
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