phunkadelic Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 Hi everyone I am in desperate need of dating advice because I am a noob and am very confused. So I met this girl the other day and she asked me for my number because I was dancing my ass of at this place (short story). The next day we hang out and at the end of the night start kissing. I feel like that night went really well the only problem was at the end of the night I got a little clingy cause I wanted to hang out I DO THIS A LOT. I told her that I just wanted to have fun and wasn't really looking for a relationship because I wasn't sure how attracted to her I was. It seems though there more we hang out the more attracted I get. A few days later I meet her at the same place we met and talk a while then at 2 in the morning we decide to go the beach. We lay there on the beach just cuddling and kiss a little. She actually wanted to have sex on the beach, but we didn't end up doing it. I feel like that day went really well as well. The next day we hang out and this was a lot more awkward because I wanted to make out with her so bad but I just didn't know how to do it. We sat there a while not really talking, but it wasn't bad at all for the most part. The problem was was that I just wanted to kiss her real bad but I had no idea how to start the process. I think she might be looking for something more long term. The thing is is that I'm willing to do that with her I just don't want to call it anything yet. That night I did the same thing I did before and I liked waned to hang out more, but she said she was tired. I got a little clingy again. So now I'm just in this kinda awkward scenario where I don't know what I really want because I enjoy hanging around her but I don't know how I feel about the whole thing. I also want to kiss her because I'm so bad at kissing and I want her to enjoy it. I hope this makes sense thank you!
DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 The problem was was that I just wanted to kiss her real bad but I had no idea how to start the process. Well, first, you lean toward her to telegraph your intention, then take your hand, lightly cradle her face, and judge her contention, If she allows you to guide her face, then you lean in for the kiss, If she's receptive, she'll learn forward to complete the bliss. As for sex, well, you had your chance there, It involves removing your pants and not being afraid to be seen in your underwear, Take a risk, what's the worst that could take place? She already gave you the green light, GET INTO THE RACE! 1
LostOnes05 Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 ^^^Textbook...follow this and succeed!! And stop thinking so much...just kiss her man!
dads new boyfriend Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Lol at you for wanting to kiss a girl, enjoy your herpes OP. Maybe ask her "do my lips taste like chloroform to you?"
Author phunkadelic Posted December 17, 2015 Author Posted December 17, 2015 So you guys don't think this is ****ed up? I'm just not really sure how she feels about kissing me! Errrrr I'm so mad at myself because I'm so awkward, but she sits there with me even if we don't talk. I know this is not the right way to think. She has a lot of other guy friends and I get really jeqlous. Should I actually just kiss her next time and not think about it?!
Mrin Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 Dude. She wanted you to put your penis inside her, on the beach, high probability of sand. I am sure she wants you to kiss her.
Author phunkadelic Posted December 17, 2015 Author Posted December 17, 2015 Yea but we were planning on doing it the next day but she ended up going to hang out with one of her other friends I was worried she lost interest!!
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