lostboyfromsouth Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 So to cut the story short i met this girl at a house party a week after my girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me. We ended up sleeping together and i stayed at hers all weekend. Since then I've driven up to her place (She's at university) every other weekend and stayed there 3 or 4 days each time. We really click and its so nice having someone there. The problem is is that she's a very awkward person and has never had a boyfriend or anyone treat her nicely, which I've always done since the first night i met her. We've been out to places together for day trips, been to dinners, been out with her friends, curled up on the sofa and watched films together, been intimate with each other more times than i can count, plus i drove her a 3 hour trip to her parents house, got invited inside had a cuppa tea with them and talked a fair bit but the problem is is that she said she's scared of a relationship because uses not sure she could trust herself when she goes out and gets drunk. Now she's not the type to sleep around as she's told me she's only ever slept with 6 men (me being the 6th) but i know shell kiss a lot of guys whilst clubbing and this is what i think she means by this. Im getting pretty attached to her tbh and i really don't want to be heart broken again. I would love to show her exactly how amazing a relationship can be and that there are nice people out there! I just really don't know what to do?!? Anyone have any advice for a situation like this? It seems like she's ready to go for it but then overtime i bring it up she kinda just shuts down a little... Thank you
CT98 Posted December 17, 2015 Posted December 17, 2015 What I would say mate; is that if someone tells you something about themselves, always believe them. Does it not worry you that she thinks herself that she can't be trusted not to cheat? Huge red flag there. Get out now while it's not going to hurt too much.
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