JNando10 Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 Let me give you some scenarios. You have a group of friends basically a clan of your own. As usual, clan outings, bonding session. There's clan A n Clan B. You and your close friends are part of Clan A. The person i am going to story about is part of Clan A n Clan B. So firstly, what you do if your friend whom you trusted most, you hanged out tgt in a group(as described), he/she is in your clan ,you shared your problems to him/her. You told him/her your deep secrets. Almost everything because you trust that person. One particular day, you did one mistake and he/she started to badmouth about you. This person starts spread rumours about you to your clan and other clans. Perhaps the whole school maybe. So now Clan B hates you because of the rumours being spreaded around. Secondly, what would you do if you tell your Clan A friendsabout this person since this person is part of Clan A but they dont seem to agree? Maybe they heard you but perhaps they are still " Okay " with him being around. Thirdly, after times and times telling them, what would you do or feel if they keep inviting him into your clan's outings (Clan A)? Fourthly, would you pretend or rather move away? Fifthly, what would you do or feel if your friends tells you to pretend instead of backing away. After telling them you dont feel comfortable, they find it funny instead if you backed away because of the people your friends mixed with? Sixth, do you feel that they dont seem to understand? So viewers, what would you do? Would love to hear all of your feedbacks and advices! Cheers!
TaraMaiden2 Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 All this tartan is making my teeth itch.... I'm sorry, I didn't follow any of that at all. These friendships seem very superficial... are you still at school? How old are you exactly....?
preraph Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 I'd stop speaking to the person I mistakenly felt was trustworthy and spilled my guts to and I'd keep hanging out with any of the ones he told your secrets to that don't seem to be bothered by it. I wouldn't go to small outings the traitor was part of, but I'd go to big ones where he would be easily avoided. None of these people are very loyal or trustworthy, probably, since none stood by you firmly, but then I don't know what secret it was. Some things don't deserve approval. I'd look for new friends and hope you find a loyal one and not tell them anything for a couple of years.
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