JustGettingBy Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 Long story short: A couple of years ago, I developed feelings for a friend in one of my friend groups. I eventually made my feels clear, but was rejected. However since most of our mutual friends generally invite both of us to hang out, we were still in each other's vicinity a lot until she developed mental health problems, where she unfriended almost everyone from our friend group from social media due to some of them having ignorance over her situation (me being one of the few not removed, showing that she does at least have a lot of respect for me). Over time, feelings started to subside, and she became 'just another person on my social media page'. Now, tickets for a pretty obscure movie by a production company both her and I really like are going to be sold, and in our city there's only going to be 1 showing. She specifically told me how to get tickets, and is now wondering who to go with, as neither of us has anyone else to go with it would seem. Although I no longer have any feelings for her, I worry that something like this (going to a movie) that would be considered a date-type thing would re-ignite feelings which I don't want. Should I avoid going with her?
d0nnivain Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 only you know how your thought process works. If your feelings for her have subsided & you both pay for your own tickets & snacks, I see no harm in attending the film show with her.
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