Snakechammah Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 What's the lesson learn here? When it crawls like a snake - whistles like a snake - looks like a snake - chances are IT IS a snake !!! Sorry for not being all mushy with you but her behavior was like this huge elephant sitting on your lap that you refused to acknowledge. What's wrong with being a snake...???
Gaeta Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 I started a thread on this. Amazing how common this is and how well girls hide it. How well girls hide it ??? Have you read this thread? She was working her clients right in front of him!! 1
Gaeta Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 What's wrong with being a snake...??? lol funny girl ! 1
oregon0011 Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 How well girls hide it ??? Have you read this thread? She was working her clients right in front of him!! Nobody in this thread suspected it. Girls were like "yeah she might be insecure. Or girls like to take sexy pics of themselves". She hid it by lying and he was believing her. 1
Gaeta Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Nobody in this thread suspected it. Girls were like "yeah she might be insecure. Or girls like to take sexy pics of themselves". She hid it by lying and he was believing her. Escort or not, this woman had inappropriate behavior with social media that deserved her being dumped. Putting up pictures of herself in panties on FB!!! Really!! That's how well she hide her game?
oregon0011 Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Escort or not, this woman had inappropriate behavior with social media that deserved her being dumped. Putting up pictures of herself in panties on FB!!! Really!! That's how well she hide her game? Yes. She was living with him and he did not know she was selling sex for money. We are in an age where some girls do it for attention. Some are cheating. And some can easily be escorts. A guy never knows for sure.
Art_Critic Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Well.. that sucks.. I hope you moved out and will not speak with her anymore..
insert_name Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Hey everyone, So I have an update. I found out she's an escort... She's been cheating on me the whole time. *mock surprise* Well I'll be a monkey's uncle! */mock surprise* Sorry to hear this OP, at least this is closure although obviously not in the way you would like. Move on and don't look back.
insert_name Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Escort or not, this woman had inappropriate behavior with social media that deserved her being dumped. Putting up pictures of herself in panties on FB!!! Really!! That's how well she hide her game? In her line of work it would be career suicide to hide it.
Gaeta Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Yes. She was living with him and he did not know she was selling sex for money. We are in an age where some girls do it for attention. Some are cheating. And some can easily be escorts. A guy never knows for sure. And a guy should never be in a relationship with a woman looking for attention. My point is even if she was not an escort - her behavior was so bad it was enough for him to end the relationship. This woman got d*ck pictures on her phone - put up pictures of her in her panties on social media - took porn like pictures of her that she sent left and right. A man should be ok with this because after all she's not an escort? C'mon. Escort or not she had a trashy behavior and was an embarrassment for him. Why did he keep on dating such a woman! 2
introverted1 Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 And a guy should never be in a relationship with a woman looking for attention. My point is even if she was not an escort - her behavior was so bad it was enough for him to end the relationship. This woman got d*ck pictures on her phone - put up pictures of her in her panties on social media - took porn like pictures of her that she sent left and right. A man should be ok with this because after all she's not an escort? C'mon. Escort or not she had a trashy behavior and was an embarrassment for him. Why did he keep on dating such a woman! Agree 100%. OP did not seem to care if she was trashy as long as she wasn't cheating -- he seemed to think she was "hot" -- so his ability to see the behavior for what it was, was clouded. I suppose it is a blessing in disguise that she's been revealed for what she is. 1
Author GirusX Posted December 31, 2015 Author Posted December 31, 2015 To be honest, I'm kinda scared and not sure how to approach the situation. I haven't said anything to her yet. I started snooping through her things and found condoms in her purse and in her closet and their numbers started reducing. I was able to look at her recent txt msgs and they were talking about her being "available" and that she has an "incall at 2pm." I looked up the number and it's for an escort agency. Then I snooped more and found pictures of her on an escorting site. I'm afraid because she's obviously a pathological liar or a sociopath and when I bring it up she may have a very negative reaction. She lives with me. This is not going to be easy.
oregon0011 Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 And a guy should never be in a relationship with a woman looking for attention. My point is even if she was not an escort - her behavior was so bad it was enough for him to end the relationship. This woman got d*ck pictures on her phone - put up pictures of her in her panties on social media - took porn like pictures of her that she sent left and right. A man should be ok with this because after all she's not an escort? C'mon. Escort or not she had a trashy behavior and was an embarrassment for him. Why did he keep on dating such a woman! She was caught as it was more obvious. But how many guys have the ability to search through the their gf's emails and phone? And yes. Girls I dated sent me naked photos of themselves. No idea if they were sent to other guys too. Most women are insecure in ways. If guys can't date insecure women then might as well give up. 1
Art_Critic Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 and when I bring it up she may have a very negative reaction. Expect it, but isn't living a lie and a dual life a bigger negative when the 2 are compared.. Time to bite the bullet.. just make sure there is NO physical altercation at all between you 2, the last thing you need is a a TPO and jail time... Maybe you should just move your stuff out first then tell her off...
Gaeta Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 I'm afraid because she's obviously a pathological liar or a sociopath and when I bring it up she may have a very negative reaction. She lives with me. This is not going to be easy. You worry for nothing. She lied and manipulated you because you let her. She's an escort not a serial killer. Put her things outside the door and have your lock changed today. Call her and tell her it's over and she'll find her things outside the door. I am sure she has friends or clients that will take her in. 2
Gaeta Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 She was caught as it was more obvious. But how many guys have the ability to search through the their gf's emails and phone? And yes. Girls I dated sent me naked photos of themselves. No idea if they were sent to other guys too. Most women are insecure in ways. If guys can't date insecure women then might as well give up. There are 2 types of insecure women. Type 1: Insecure and needs compliments and is a little self-conscious of her body Type 2: Insecure and act like a tramp Don't date type 2. If you like type 2 women than what does that say about you eh? 1
introverted1 Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 She was caught as it was more obvious. But how many guys have the ability to search through the their gf's emails and phone? And yes. Girls I dated sent me naked photos of themselves. No idea if they were sent to other guys too. Most women are insecure in ways. If guys can't date insecure women then might as well give up. Seriously? There were a LOT of red flags here, Oregon, as well as a lot of behavior that couldn't be written off as just insecurity, imo. Have you really dated girls who made their Facebook profiles public and then posted pictures of themselves in their panties as their profile pic? Or received random d!ck pics and did nothing to stop it? Or behaved in any of the other myriad ways OPs gf did? 1
Author GirusX Posted December 31, 2015 Author Posted December 31, 2015 It's my place and she has so much **** here. Like an entire truck full. I'm gonna at least record everything. I want her to take a pregnancy test first before I bring it up. Otherwise if she's pregnant she could use it against me.
introverted1 Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 It's my place and she has so much **** here. Like an entire truck full. I'm gonna at least record everything. I want her to take a pregnancy test first before I bring it up. Otherwise if she's pregnant she could use it against me. Unless you want to prolong the drama, just put her out. If she's pregnant, where she lives won't change that. And if she's pregnant, you'd need a paternity test regardless. 1
Gaeta Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 It's my place and she has so much **** here. Like an entire truck full. I'm gonna at least record everything. I want her to take a pregnancy test first before I bring it up. Otherwise if she's pregnant she could use it against me. What?? What is this about? You're getting a little paranoid. If she is pregnant then have a paternity test done later.
introverted1 Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Do get yourself yourself checked for STDs. 1
jen1447 Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Nobody in this thread suspected it. Girls were like "yeah she might be insecure. Or girls like to take sexy pics of themselves". She hid it by lying and he was believing her. I think everyone suspected it. Girus, I'd be very careful how you handle this. Escorts have typically been around the block as far as human interaction goes so they know how to exploit ppl and situations. And they tend to be kinda reactionary. (Occupational hazard I assume.) If I were you I'd make this a clean, fast, complete break, document everything, and always have witnesses around. Srsly, some phony accusations and intimidation tactics could easily be in your future. e.g. "I'm not leaving and you're gonna keep supporting me ....or do you want the cops to know about that time you raped me?" Etc. I hope she doesn't have any kids .... 3
Versacehottie Posted December 31, 2015 Posted December 31, 2015 Hey everyone, So I have an update. I found out she's an escort... She's been cheating on me the whole time. yep. Sorry to hear that. Glad you found out now. Hang in there.
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