lunaleone17 Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 We broke up, he said "If I was to be with anyone it would be you, but I am not sure if I should be with anyone right now" He said he is confused, and he doesn't know what he wants right now. So I need to give him some space. How much space am I supposed to give him? How long should I be in no contact? I feel like I am being led on, or even strung along. This was my first long term relationship. I was his first girlfriend. I have a strange feeling that he's talking behind my back as well. When we broke up I had no friends left, they all were on his side. Frustrated, confused, and upset. Advice, and help please. I am desperate for some help.
worldexploded Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 (edited) Please do not put a length of time on how long to be on NC mode. Just stop talking to him. Stop talking to the point you stop thinking about him everyday. I absolutely understand your position right now. If you look at my past posts I was completely distraught over my first. Almost three years later now, I couldn't care less. I know this is easier said than done but no matter what you do or say right now it will not make a difference in his mind. When he is ready to talk again he will. Until then take the time to be sad and feel those emotions but DO NOT text/talk/call at all. If you happen to see him on the regular just stay away. As for friends, **** em' people come and go. I can guarantee you that. Edited December 16, 2015 by worldexploded .
Author lunaleone17 Posted December 16, 2015 Author Posted December 16, 2015 Thank you so much, it just really sucks. I've dated before, and everything I'm just sad about how things ended. Just needed someone to help me out.
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