Guitarisgood Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 I went to visit a friend who was staying at an old flame's place. Obviously you could tell there was a bit of tension and awkwardness between her and me as I moved on not wanting to wait around for her to make up her mind. We stopped replying after having a little talk a while back. Thing is throughout the trip there literally every conversation she'd bring up the attractiveness of guys i.e. celebrities or how great this local guy was or that guy is to the point of not normalcy (she's a country girl). She'd get uncomfortable the rare time I'd mentioned the same as part of a conversation. She invited me to stay that night with our friend and her family and it was pretty funny when it backfired and her mum mentioned another guy to which she blushed really red and quickly tried to gather her words to say that he was just a friend. She was basically showing me off to her family that night; telling me to play the guitar, show off my hobbies etc. That night after everyone had gone to sleep, she came past mine again to check up on me. Not to mention she didn't sleep well that night; waking really early as I'd mention I may have to head out by dawn (I didn't and ended up sticking around). Thing is deep down beneath all of this wishy washy murky waters, we do care deeply for one another. Now I don't get it. Looking back I think I should have gone my own way as I can feel her hooks creeping in once again. My friends told me not to over think and that deep down she doesn't know what she wants herself. So what gives? I am getting better and better at screening out woman but some woman just have me scratching at my head some times.
Buddhist Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 Too little information to tell from what you've written. If you think its going nowhere then move on.
AlexDominico Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 she wants you alright - as an emotional tampon. move on to better things.
Zippy2000 Posted December 16, 2015 Posted December 16, 2015 Attention seeker? Possibly. The information is very vague to form a proper opinion but a lot of people do like attention and why not? Some people out there have such mundane lives they want things to happen and create drama themselves. I agree with your friends not to over look this. She just may be over friendly or bubbly which some people are. Just chalk it up and see things arent meant to be and leave her alon rather than give her the attention you think she is getting.
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