dogood4urself Posted May 31, 2005 Posted May 31, 2005 We broke NC about 2 weeks ago after 3 months. We have been trying to be friends...I guess some part of me wanted to get back together with her....I don't know if it is because I am lonely...or what? My ex and I talked....and I think I finally get it...or at least I am trying to tell myself so.... She does not want me back romantically, but she does want to be in my life as a friend. That is really hard for me.... I think it really is just my ego that is hurt... becuase I don't REALLY want to get back with her, our relationship was terrible...there was a lot of love and not enough understanding....you know?? I guess it is hard for me to let go.... it is hard for me to accept that I no longer mean the same thing in her life, that my opinions,thoughts and feelings don't really affect her in the same way. It is hard to admit that things change and that now, i have to change. I guess I don't really want to do NC, it is too much work. I would just like to be a friend with a little distance... is this stupid of me? Should I just go NC and say...I can't be her friend right now.... I guess I have a hard time believing that she is just so cool with seeing me....I am wondering if she is just acting that way or that is how she really feels...I don't know.... I am so confused can someone please help me...
sanne Posted June 1, 2005 Posted June 1, 2005 i think i can speak for us all when I say you should implement complete NC. you both realize you weren't good together so why bother being friends and prolonging your hurt. Cut your losses and be glad your breakup was not long and drawn out.
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