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Met this very hot.girl at a party, got her number and then we started texting. She seemed very responsive at first but I had to initiate contact everytime.

 

We then set up a date three weeks later but I unfortunately flaked because of work. She was cool with it and didn’t have an argument with me, so we re-scheduled.

 

However the next time she was the one who messaged me one day before and told me.she couldn't come, and that we could re-schedule if I wished.

 

I was pissed because I thought she was just Being vindictive and since she was not giving me.clear signs of interest I decided to test if she was really interested or not... I would text her occasionally and then ignore what she said... Then one day she was mad and texted me saying I was probably a player (lol) and that she was deleting me because she was tired of little games.

 

One week later I Texted her in whatsapp and I didnt even have to ask for it - she readded me because I could see her pic again.

We texted for a while but she is not flirty and everytime I try to make things more sexual she changes the topic - in a nice and funny way but she does. I don't know if she is keeping me in the friendzone or not.

 

The next day she texted me a link related to my football team. I took one day to reply. Then she took ten hours to reply back, and she only said "agreed it is really great" and nothing else. She didnt actually initiate a conversation.

 

So I decided I will not text her again but it's been one week already and she didnt say ANYTHING.... she didnt delete me from.whatsapp this time so I Dont know what to think.

 

Did she lose interest? Is it time to move on???

GingerVixen Established Member

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Honestly I think she lost interest because you were playing hard to get.

 

If you're so worried go and text her

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Honestly I think she lost interest because you were playing hard to get.

 

If you're so worried go and text her

 

I was not playing hard to get.

I thought she was playing me so I wanted to know if she was really interested

Shanex Established Member

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People nowadays get tired of intentional or not flakiness, I don't think you did anything wrong but people just move on pretty quickly if you don't show enough interest fast enough.

 

How old are you?

 

The point being... eat the meal while it's hot.

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People nowadays get tired of intentional or not flakiness, I don't think you did anything wrong but people just move on pretty quickly if you don't show enough interest fast enough.

 

How old are you?

 

The point being... eat the meal while it's hot.

 

I am 31.

 

So do you think she is still interested or not?

 

What should I do?

Shanex Established Member

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Doesn't look good when you have to constantly initiate contact. Give it a try or two again if she ghost on you leave it at that. She could initiate herself or take the time to respond...good luck

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Doesn't look good when you have to constantly initiate contact. Give it a try or two again if she ghost on you leave it at that. She could initiate herself or take the time to respond...good luck

 

The last time she texted me when she replied to my text I was the one who didnt respond

 

I Dont know if she is waiting for me to initiate again.

 

But what really annoys me is that she doesnt initiate a proper conversation, she just keeps sending links to articles and nothing else. I Dont know what she is doing tbh. I am tired of this

Shanex Established Member

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You might have just been friendzoned.

Myragal Established Member

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You haven't seen had a date yet but you are already upset...playing games.

 

Wow... Just what we want in a man....not.

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You haven't seen had a date yet but you are already upset...playing games.

 

Wow... Just what we want in a man....not.

 

Well do you think she is interested or not?

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Honestly I think she lost interest because you were playing hard to get.

Actually, it's the opposite.

 

If you didn't give a flying fornication about her, she'd be all over you right now.

 

You were too easy to get.

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Why don't you just ask her? All these thinking is driving both you and her crazy. People read different messages differently. I am sure she has a different view on the whole thing.

 

 

You should ask yourself if you really like her. If you do, take a chance and talk to her heart to heart. No more texting. meet or at least talk on the phone.

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Why don't you just ask her? All these thinking is driving both you and her crazy. People read different messages differently. I am sure she has a different view on the whole thing.

 

 

You should ask yourself if you really like her. If you do, take a chance and talk to her heart to heart. No more texting. meet or at least talk on the phone.

 

I would like to see her again But I cant decided if she is interested or not.

 

What do you think? Does she look interested or perhaps she just re added me to be polite?

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I would like to see her again But I cant decided if she is interested or not.

 

What do you think? Does she look interested or perhaps she just re added me to be polite?

 

She's not interested. She correctly pegged you as a player, as everyone who's read any of your prior posts here has.

 

Why always the 'tests' - blowing them off, texting then ignoring? Where has it gotten you? Oh, nowhere, that's right.

 

Drop the PUA stuff.

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I seriously don't get people. "Took 10 hrs to reply" on purpose? Why? Everyone knows everyone has their phone close when they are dating. Just reply like a normal person. All these games get people no where. Just ask her out, be done with it.

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I seriously don't get people. "Took 10 hrs to reply" on purpose? Why? Everyone knows everyone has their phone close when they are dating. Just reply like a normal person. All these games get people no where. Just ask her out, be done with it.

 

OP is operating from a handbook. It isn't just ignoring texts, it includes making plans, let's say for brunch, then ignoring her the day of.

 

In that case, the girl won, as she went off and did something with her friends, rather than calling him, begging to know where he was. Even then, he had the gall to be butthurt. :lmao:

 

It's obvious OP enjoys games more than he values an actual relationship.

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I would like to see her again But I cant decided if she is interested or not.

 

What do you think? Does she look interested or perhaps she just re added me to be polite?

 

Rather than playing stupid games, why didn't you ask her out for another date?

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