JimmyJones89 Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Hi Why do some girls just not text back? She read my message this morning and has been on and off whatsapp all day and posting on Facebook. If a girls not interested why can't they just say it? Is she playing some kind of game? Thanks
ravfour4 Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Girls don't reply if they're not interested. Girls reply late if they're not interested or if they're playing hard to get. If her reply is short and brief, it's the former. A girl is not going to come out and say "I find you kind of creepy, please stop messaging me"
TheTraveler Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Hi Why do some girls just not text back? She read my message this morning and has been on and off whatsapp all day and posting on Facebook. If a girls not interested why can't they just say it? Is she playing some kind of game? Thanks What is your situation with this girl?
Xiomn Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Because they can't be straight up and say not interested which is because they fear backlash so they take the pussy way out and ignore in hopes they get the message instead (even though they could just as well block them if the recipient did backlash at them in some form once telling them they're not interested). Poop logic. 1
kismetkismet Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Sometimes it's just that they think it's kinder to let you down easy. They assume that you will get the hint when they don't respond and think that it would be more awkward for both of you to have to have that conversation. Sometimes they're just doing it to avoid the awkwardness for themselves, but usually it's a combination. Also it depends on the situation... like did you *just* text this girl, or did you ask her out? she can't really respond to a random text with an "i'm not interested in you story" because you might just be like "what are you talking about, i'm not interested in you I just sent you a text message"
Author JimmyJones89 Posted December 14, 2015 Author Posted December 14, 2015 I used to work with her years ago, we had a good relationship friends wise. I was told by a few people she fancied me but I had a gf at the time. Anyway she gets a new job, moves away, get a boyfriend and marrys him. Then the other week I here they broke up nearly a year ago and she's single. So I decide to send a friendly message. Sending back and forth for a few days and she said it would be good to meet up at some point. Sent her a message yesterday and she didn't reply till this morning. Send one back and now nothing, even tho she's posting all over Facebook and on whatsapp. It's happened with a few other girls as well, no idea why. Women baffle me
kismetkismet Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Would you prefer that she tell you that she's not interested in you enough to date you? Like actually send you a text that says "Sorry, I'm not interested in you. I was reeling from my breakup from my husband and needed some attention and wanted to catch up, but I don't want to actually date you" (I feel this is the most likely scenario) I'm not being facetious, I'm genuinely curious if that would be preferable to you than just not receiving a text and inferring that things aren't going to move forward based on that. Personally I'd rather just not get the text. Unless I'm actually dating someone I don't need them to *break up* with me.
Maggie4 Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Are these the only two choices? Either text back as often as you text her and reply as fast as you do, or else say she never wants to hear from you and cuts off all contact. Seems rather drastic! Somebody has to not text back for a day or two, otherwise the two people end up texting constantly back and forth throughout the day, every day. If there is no mutual interest to devote your time to this one activity, then one person needs to not text back to end the cycle of texting.
SoThatHappened Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 Women baffle me And you'll pay taxes and eventually die. You should be used to everything but dying by now. Move on. Don't try to rationalize. She may or may not be into you. She may have her own crap and felt she couldn't get involved. It's a BS thing to do (flatout ghosting), but you can't change it. Just "next" and move on. Anything else is a waste of time.
abby_tx Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 Don't waste your time wondering why she didn't text back. Don't text her back asking why she didn't text her back. Don't text her anything along the lines of, "I guess you're not interested..." Just walk away and move on to the next girl. Girls tend to do this if they have trouble turning nice guys down. I am guilty of it.
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