bigfred Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Hello, I have been in no contact for over 3 months with my ex, she did try to call me and text me 2 months into the NC, I didn't answer or text her back, all she texted was, "hope everything good" no voice mail either. At that time, I could honestly say that I was litterly with another woman and moved on with my new girlfriend. I never told my ex that I was with some one else we kind of just stopped talking and being with each other so I moved on. I did post some pics of me and the new girl on my facebook but I don't know if she saw them, my stuff is public. Well, she texted me again on my Bday a couple weeks ago barely before midnight that night of my Bday. I answered with a simple "thank you" My Question is that, i have received a bad virus and lost a lot of files in my PC and we kind of worked together and i know she had some important files i needed in her inbox that i sent to her when we were together. So i just called her and got no answer, i called her again and left a voice mail, saying that to please abd help me and send me the files due to a pc error, still nothing i also texted her and still nothing, she knows how important these files are and till this day nothing not a call or text!! WHY SHE IS NOT RESPONDING TO MY CALLS OR TEXTS, WE DIDNT BREAK UP IN A BAD WAY. AND NOW IM ALSO BROKING UP WITH MY NEW GIRL DUE TO THAT I TRIED TO GET a hold of her and she got pissed its work related
Blanco Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Maybe she knows you broke up with your girlfriend and thinks this is just an excuse to contact her? You yourself say that you reached out to her because you've broken up with your girlfriend.
Author bigfred Posted December 14, 2015 Author Posted December 14, 2015 Maybe she knows you broke up with your girlfriend and thinks this is just an excuse to contact her? You yourself say that you reached out to her because you've broken up with your girlfriend. ya reached out to her for the work stuff, but she does not know that me and my current girlfriend are broken up, there is no way she would know
Simon Phoenix Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Is there no other way to get this information?
Author bigfred Posted December 14, 2015 Author Posted December 14, 2015 Is there no other way to get this information? Actually, i was able to get it from the office controller by a chance!!! and I sent her a text saying. "Just wanted to let you know that I was a able to get the files from your office controller, that was forwarded from your email to his. Hope your ok, thank you, you have been lost, call me sometime." she never texted back or called on neither of the texts?
Blanco Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Just sounds like you're looking for reasons to talk to her now that you've broken up with your girlfriend. If this were really just about the files, you wouldn't have followed up with a text, especially after she never responded to your initial requests. Also, the "call me sometime" is a dead giveaway that this was just a front to talk to her. You got your files. If this was really about them, then why would she call you still? 2
Simon Phoenix Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 Actually, i was able to get it from the office controller by a chance!!! and I sent her a text saying. "Just wanted to let you know that I was a able to get the files from your office controller, that was forwarded from your email to his. Hope your ok, thank you, you have been lost, call me sometime." she never texted back or called on neither of the texts? Yeah, you didn't need to send that follow-up. You got the info, stop fishing for contact. And, like mightycpa said, back up your info better.
Author bigfred Posted December 15, 2015 Author Posted December 15, 2015 Yeah, you didn't need to send that follow-up. You got the info, stop fishing for contact. And, like mightycpa said, back up your info better. Well, the thing is, I really needed the files and I got them, I wasn't really fishing, it would have been nice to hear her voice, it is what it is. Im pretty much over her so I took a chance to see what would happen. But im better and the NC did work for me, I have moved on and feel good no more heartaches, if she texts me or she doesn't who cares!! im good
Simon Phoenix Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 Well, the thing is, I really needed the files and I got them, I wasn't really fishing, it would have been nice to hear her voice, it is what it is. Im pretty much over her so I took a chance to see what would happen. But im better and the NC did work for me, I have moved on and feel good no more heartaches, if she texts me or she doesn't who cares!! im good If you got them, then there was no reason to send a follow-up, especially since she didn't respond when you were asking for them in the first place. That's where you were fishing. 1
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