should i let him go or try to work on things???

[chichi]

well me and my husband decided to cll it quits. i told him anout the other guy and now we are for sure getting divorced. well i seem to be doing ok right now but i know that in a couple of weeks i will be re-thinking my decision. i dont know what to do he keeps calling me and talking all this stuff about me...but then he calls and says how much he loves me and wants to be with me and i am just so confused i know we dont make eachother happy anymore but why is it so hard to let it go?

 

i know what i did was wrong but i really dont feel bad about it because of all the stuff he has put me through.....still there is no excuse for cheating on anyone. should i just let him go or try to work on things. he wants to work it out but i think he is confused because he just doesnt want to let me go so i am not with anyone else besides him. i dont think we could work it out even if we tried there is too much water under the bridge. and we are way past fixable. please give advice

[MadKurlz]

Its hard to let go of something you are so used to. Its the routine. the stabilty. A lot of people are afraid of being alone.

[Da_1_n_OnlyN3na]

yeah tru.. ppl are afraid of being aloe so dey dont want to let go off some one ... even when you dont like them..but do u love him?

 

if u do u should try it out.. theres a second chance here.. do u want to take it?

[suegail]

The heading of this thread reads, "Should I let him go or try to work on things?" but I find in your posting the words "I don't think we could work it out" and 'we are past fixable."

 

I don't see how you could hope to accomplish anything toward saving your marriage if you are carrying around this attitude that nothing is going to work, it's hopeless. You seem to have given up already.

 

I guess the only advice I can offer you is to look at yourself and what you honestly feel you want to do. I hope you'll end up making the right decision, and I hope whatever you do, you'll be happy.