KS3699 Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Jason & I have been friends for 8 years. He knew I was dating someone (I had been for about 2 yrs) & I spoke to him about how my relationship was ending due to differences. After we had this conversation, he expressed interest in me. He said it was sudden & it was just a slight interest. He then kissed me. Prior to this conversation, I realized I was slightly interested in Jason too. He has since reassured me & told me that he is interested. He is apprehensive becase he doesn't get how all of a sudden we both felt something that never existed before & he doesn't want to be a rebound. He said he likes me but needs to be honest like we have always been with each other & he loves that. When we are together - he is always holding me or pulling me near him. He is always looking at me& touching me &being flirty which is somehting that is out of character for him since he is not normally a flirty guy. He is always holding my hand or putting his arms around me & telling me how pretty i am. He also keeps making comments about how I am the type of girl he wants to be with because we are friends and he loves my company. I think he really likes me - but... He has really distanced himself in communication - texting he won't really respond if at all. & this past weekend we hung out with a few people & he all of a sudden seemed nervous & a little cold. Given, he was sick when we were with people, but he had never been stand offish before. It was almost as if he intentionally was trying to be different towards me. This is a switch from what he had been like 3 days prior when we hung out last (he wouldn't keep his hands off me) I texted him that night & told him I wanted to make sure he was ok because he seemed a little off & I wanted to make sure he was alright & I am here to talk. He never got back to me - it has been 24 hrs. Thoughts? Is he playing games or should I move on? Since we have been friends I don't want to ruin anything - did i say enough or too much? and why would a guy change suddenly?
Star love Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 I think you should try speaking to him in person about it maybe? You've been friends along time so it should be easy for you to spot any doubts about the new relationship route! Also maybe he's just shy around people with you because this is very new to him and he's so used to being friends with you, he may have felt a little odd around everyone else showing his actual feelings for you. As opposed to when your alone. Maybe just give it some more time if he continues to be off with you have a conversation with him ask him out right if he would prefer to go back to the way things were before? Always try to talk to him in person text messages can be read the wrong way as what they are written. Hope this helps
preraph Posted December 22, 2015 Posted December 22, 2015 Consider the fact that maybe he's a great friend but a bad boyfriend. This can certainly happen.
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