LemonsInATub Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 First things first, no wars in this forum, PLEASE! Any advice is acceptable in this thread so don't h8 m8! Ok, now that I have that off my chest, onto the real problem. There's this girl. We've been dating for about a week. And this is REAL STUFF! We aren't dating for popularity in school or things like that... I actually wanna last this all the way through college! She is a really fun person! PERFECT EVEN! And I know you might be like, "You've only been dating her for a week, bro! How are you sure that she'll stick with you for the rest of your life?" Well, we've actually been really close friends for about 2 years now... it's just that I've just recently come to my senses and asked her out. So we're in 7th grade, we both don't have a car (obviously), and I live 15 min away from her house while driving so there's no way I'm walking there every night. We REALLY like each other! She actually said that if she could, she would literally have ANAL SEX with me! This is the real "Notebook" stuff guys. We are obsessing over each other, and we can't control ourselves when we are at school together. The ONE thing that is stopping me from getting through her touch barrier is the amount of publicity at our school. We have barely any break time between classes, and the only time we can give casual hugs to each other is after school at the LAST second before we split ways to go home. It's not helping that the police at our school will get onto you for public affection either. We're both goody two shoes, so there is no "going to the restroom" to sit out in the halls and make out or anything. Even though we've never been to each others houses, I feel that once we get drivers licenses in about 2 years we'll be set. But I CAN'T WAIT THAT LONG HER TOUCH HER BODY! Like I said, this is real. It's not like we wanna **** or anything, just get a few, "Let me grab you behind the waist and grasp you tightly so you know how much I've missed you last night." Can you guys help? I don't think we're ready to start kissing yet, but we will be in a few months. It's hard having "urges" towards a person that you LOVE and then not be able to tell her how much you love her through those urges. Any help would be nice, but some advice from specifically females that have been through this already would bring the most help. And sorry for the long post, I just get carried away sometimes. I just wanted to express how serious this is and how much it means to me! THX AND BYE!
Author LemonsInATub Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 Invest? They're only like $1... the hell you be meaning invest for?
Lois_Griffin Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 LOL. I don't recall anal sex being part of the "Notebook." So you're not willing to walk a lousy 15 minutes to be with your 'lady love' so you can grope her to 'show' her how much you love her? What kind of help are you looking for from the ladies here? If you refuse to walk to her house and want to wait 2 years until you can drive to see her, what advice CAN we give you? To get a moped or a bicycle?
Qboro90 Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 lol I'm not sure if this is serious but got a kick out of it anyways. You're talking about anal sex but you're not ready to kiss her yet for a couple months? Seems a bit peculiar. You're in love but never been to one another's houses? Have fun 1
hippychick3 Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 Where the hell are your parents? I sure hope you're both being well supervised and her parents are monitoring cell phones and all social media. 1
Glitters Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 I really hope this is a troll otherwise it should be closed as its underage kid here. Anywho, goody two shoes 'people' also have sex.Sex is a natural response for a person we love. Yes, when and how you have it , depends on a lot of factors. A typical good girl has sexual desires but will do it only with the right guy who is respectful to her in and out of bedroom.A good guy has sex with a girl he desires. There are many ways to show love, sex is only a part.what you are feeling is lust.
SoThatHappened Posted December 12, 2015 Posted December 12, 2015 Invest in condoms please. Yes. Please don't multiply... not yet at least. I feel dumber for reading that post, but thankful I don't have kids...
Author LemonsInATub Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 IM NOT THE ONE WHO SAID I WAS READY FOR ANAL GUYS! I simply said that she told me that she was ready for it. AND I'm not a 15 minute WALK away from her house, its a 15 min DRIVE! If I could walk to her house then I wouldn't be on this forum! Not trying to argue with a good, helping community, just wanted to make sure the facts were all confirmed...
Author LemonsInATub Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 I really hope this is a troll otherwise it should be closed as its underage kid here. Anywho, goody two shoes 'people' also have sex.Sex is a natural response for a person we love. Yes, when and how you have it , depends on a lot of factors. A typical good girl has sexual desires but will do it only with the right guy who is respectful to her in and out of bedroom.A good guy has sex with a girl he desires. There are many ways to show love, sex is only a part.what you are feeling is lust. I was actually just referring to talking to her in general, but you are right about the "desire" part. The whole post in one sentence would be, "People in the halls keep on interrupting our romantic conversations."
Author LemonsInATub Posted December 12, 2015 Author Posted December 12, 2015 Yes. Please don't multiply... not yet at least. I feel dumber for reading that post, but thankful I don't have kids... Don't worry man, multiplying isnt in my dictionary for now. Not even kissing. I just wanna have one chance everyday to sit there for 5 minutes, hugging her. But APPARENTLY other people in the forum didn't read the part about me saying I didn't want to **** her... yet.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 It almost has to be a troll... or a 13yo who doesn't yet understand where barely-teen girls even get the first idea of their having anal sex. But I will point out that Lois didn't read carefully the part where it is a 15 minute drive to her house, and obviously (to most, anyway) a muuuuuuuch longer walk to get there. So, Lemons, where do ya suppose that this 7th grader you fancy got this idea of desiring anal sex with you?? (do you suppose it was from her last 4 boyfriends?) (hint: unlikely)
Author LemonsInATub Posted December 14, 2015 Author Posted December 14, 2015 PLEASE help me on this... So there's this girl. I've known her for about 2.5 years now. I asked her out a week ago. So, my family and I decided to go on a trip for Christmas break, while our school continues on (we get to skip one week of school, and we have a 2 week break after.) Now before I start bragging about how her and I have been going crazy over each other, which was a mistake in my last thread, I just want to say that we've been going mad over each other. That's ALL I'm going to say this time! Anyway, today I was texting her due to me going on that trip and... she BARELY texted me at all! She told me she was really bored and she didn't have anything to do today, so why would she get all corny and skip over my messages? I'm really confused, but one thing that I came up with was me being too overbearing for her... Like, am I texting her TOO much? Should I just call her so I can give her a limited time period to answer, telling me when she's available? Like I said, I'm REALLY CONFUSED. I just do not understand why she would ignore my texts? I mean, she did text me a few times today, but not as much as she normally would answer. The ONE excuse that I have for this situation is that she said that her phone was messing up today, and that she started to get my texts late, or not at all. I'm pretty sure this is just due to the hotels building, which greatly blocks out my 4G signal. Anyway, what should I do? Give her another chance or just abandon her, waiting until she starts texting me on her own? Tell me what you think!!! (please!)
TheTraveler Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 PLEASE help me on this... So there's this girl. I've known her for about 2.5 years now. I asked her out a week ago. So, my family and I decided to go on a trip for Christmas break, while our school continues on (we get to skip one week of school, and we have a 2 week break after.) Now before I start bragging about how her and I have been going crazy over each other, which was a mistake in my last thread, I just want to say that we've been going mad over each other. That's ALL I'm going to say this time! Anyway, today I was texting her due to me going on that trip and... she BARELY texted me at all! She told me she was really bored and she didn't have anything to do today, so why would she get all corny and skip over my messages? I'm really confused, but one thing that I came up with was me being too overbearing for her... Like, am I texting her TOO much? Should I just call her so I can give her a limited time period to answer, telling me when she's available? Like I said, I'm REALLY CONFUSED. I just do not understand why she would ignore my texts? I mean, she did text me a few times today, but not as much as she normally would answer. The ONE excuse that I have for this situation is that she said that her phone was messing up today, and that she started to get my texts late, or not at all. I'm pretty sure this is just due to the hotels building, which greatly blocks out my 4G signal. Anyway, what should I do? Give her another chance or just abandon her, waiting until she starts texting me on her own? Tell me what you think!!! (please!) Just take a break from texting and enjoy your vacation. Let her contact you.
ExpatInItaly Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 (edited) How much are you texting her, exactly? And what is the nature of these texts? If you're sending lots of messages and she's not very responsive, then yes, I'd say perhaps you're overbearing. Ease up and let her come to you. Sending even more messages isn't going to help. As far as calling - have you asked her out by text? If you have an she has dodged it, I don't think calling is going to be a wise idea. EDIT: Just read your other thread. You really need to relax, OP. Edited December 14, 2015 by ExpatInItaly 1
angel.eyes Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 You've been "dating" one week. This is just way too much angst and anxiety for something so new. At this rate, you'll probably have a heart attack before New Year's. Relax and enjoy your vacation. Worrying isn't going to improve anything for the better. If you hear from her, great. If you don't, oh well. You'll live either way.
Glitters Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Listen kid, girls and boys at your age are constantly on social media and hop from one chat group to another.My step son is your age and when he visits us,thats all he does on his phone.This little girl is also doing the same. She probably doesnt even remember you !
Author LemonsInATub Posted December 15, 2015 Author Posted December 15, 2015 How much are you texting her, exactly? And what is the nature of these texts? If you're sending lots of messages and she's not very responsive, then yes, I'd say perhaps you're overbearing. Ease up and let her come to you. Sending even more messages isn't going to help. As far as calling - have you asked her out by text? If you have an she has dodged it, I don't think calling is going to be a wise idea. EDIT: Just read your other thread. You really need to relax, OP. Ya my other thread was REALLY long, but that's why I started a new one; for a fresh outlook towards the community. A lot of other people were H8IN hard on my other thread... Oh ya, and I've been texting her EXACTLY (or pretty much) 5 times a day, when she doesn't respond. She's been a little more active now, and she said she was extremely busy the other day and that's why she didn't text me as much. So in turn, I think we're good now, and it doesn't even seem that important anymore. Please quote back if you know how to take down threads so I can get rid of these 2 that are pointless now! New to this website so any help is appreciated!
ExpatInItaly Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 Ya my other thread was REALLY long, but that's why I started a new one; for a fresh outlook towards the community. A lot of other people were H8IN hard on my other thread... Oh ya, and I've been texting her EXACTLY (or pretty much) 5 times a day, when she doesn't respond. She's been a little more active now, and she said she was extremely busy the other day and that's why she didn't text me as much. So in turn, I think we're good now, and it doesn't even seem that important anymore. Please quote back if you know how to take down threads so I can get rid of these 2 that are pointless now! New to this website so any help is appreciated! Ask a modertator to close them.
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