AIJ Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 We broke up at the beginning of this year. I went off the radar as best as I could, she'd keep trying to get to me passively through various social media websites, blocked her on those. Her friends then began trying to get to me through various social media websites. Blocked them all. Currently in a great relationship, and my ex will not leave my girlfriend alone. She's doing exactly the same as she was to me at the start, passively making her presence known through social media. Likes, follows etc. and it's really, really annoying me. I've been silent since the start, ignoring everything. I can't take it anymore it's irritating the **** out of me, I want to say something to my ex because I'm under the impression that she wants a reaction, once she gets it, she MAY leave us alone?
LydiaLong Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 That's a scary situation you're in. But truly, I think the best policy is to keep ignoring her aggressions. Maybe you and your girlfriend could take a break from all social media. If it continues, you should send her a private message asking ner (nicely) to stop stalking you and allowing you to move on. 1
Amelie1980 Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 (edited) We broke up at the beginning of this year. I went off the radar as best as I could, she'd keep trying to get to me passively through various social media websites, blocked her on those. Her friends then began trying to get to me through various social media websites. Blocked them all. Currently in a great relationship, and my ex will not leave my girlfriend alone. She's doing exactly the same as she was to me at the start, passively making her presence known through social media. Likes, follows etc. and it's really, really annoying me. I've been silent since the start, ignoring everything. I can't take it anymore it's irritating the **** out of me, I want to say something to my ex because I'm under the impression that she wants a reaction, once she gets it, she MAY leave us alone? Cant you just block her on everything? Which site is she using to get to your GF? can your GF just adjust her privacy settings? Edited December 14, 2015 by Amelie1980 1
marky00 Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Hmmm who dumped who? If you dumped her..... I find it a little odd that her presence in any way bothers you. I mean its not like she is at your front door or blowing up your phone. If she dumped you.... this is also kinda of odd to have a dumper social media stalking you this badly. Since you said you went off the radar, i'm guessing she dumped you. Overall just very ODD. 2
mightycpa Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 We broke up at the beginning of this year. I went off the radar as best as I could, she'd keep trying to get to me passively through various social media websites, blocked her on those. Her friends then began trying to get to me through various social media websites. Blocked them all. Currently in a great relationship, and my ex will not leave my girlfriend alone. She's doing exactly the same as she was to me at the start, passively making her presence known through social media. Likes, follows etc. and it's really, really annoying me. I've been silent since the start, ignoring everything. I can't take it anymore it's irritating the **** out of me, I want to say something to my ex because I'm under the impression that she wants a reaction, once she gets it, she MAY leave us alone?I had one like that once. It was the one after the first one, who never contacted me after the BU. I don't know which was worse... I think the one that wouldn't leave me alone. At least I knew where I stood with the first one. I couldn't figure out what the second one wanted. To end the nightmare, I had to get behaviorally abusive.... BPD-like almost. I was very nice and considerate, then became demanding, having her jump through hoops for me, then I'd blow her off and disappear, only to start the cycle over again. It took a couple of times until she prepared this big luncheon and I stood her up. I don't know if she finally took the hint or if she believed that I had changed or what, but it worked and I never heard from her again.
Author AIJ Posted December 15, 2015 Author Posted December 15, 2015 Hmmm who dumped who? If you dumped her..... I find it a little odd that her presence in any way bothers you. I mean its not like she is at your front door or blowing up your phone. If she dumped you.... this is also kinda of odd to have a dumper social media stalking you this badly. Since you said you went off the radar, i'm guessing she dumped you. Overall just very ODD. Eeeeeerm I don't really know who dumped who, it was kind of mutual I guess? I don't know. But anyway, she's been in a relationship with another guy since like a month after we broke up, yet she still keeps trying to get at me/my girlfriend.. I just don't get it?
Wewon Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 Your ex is a stalker. Call her out and tell her to leave your girlfriend alone and report her to the social media powers that be.
dyna85 Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 AIJ, I would either ignore and let her carry on with her pitiful charade or tell her to leave you alone, or exit the social media scene altogether, but I don't think you should have to leave social media because that's not fair to you or your current girl. Can you and your girl block her? That might solve the problem.
T-16bullseyeWompRat Posted December 15, 2015 Posted December 15, 2015 How about drop social media? Seriously wtf has facebook, Snapchat, insta, any of that BS ever done positively for anyone? I'll wait around for a solid answer, but I already know nobody can give me one. Involve yourself in that cesspool of drama, and you will receive drama. End of story.
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