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When to say I love you....


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I just recently started dating this guy, we got really close and had been flirting for a while. He's liked me for a bit before we made it official, and he just told me he loved me. I didn't say it back though. Not because I don't think I do or will, but because last time I said it to my ex-boyfriend, I'm not entirely sure that I meant it. So I want to make sure when I say it that I actually mean it. I've had urges to tell him that I love him, but I don't know if it's because he says it that it makes me want to, or if I actually do love him. When I told him why I wasn't going to say it back for a while he totally understood. But now I don't know how long to wait or when to say it.

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Officially only about a month, but about 2 months all together.

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Officially only about a month, but about 2 months all together.

 

I honestly think thats too soon. I mean you can fall in love quickly, but to jump out and say i without spending sufficient time together is something else. Im no relationship pro but in my opinion i think its too soon. maybe closer to christmas if you really feel that way. But if you truly feel that way you should say it since he Hopefuuly feels the same way and isnt just saying it.

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You say it when you feel it.

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