notinept Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Ladies; what would be going through your mind if a guy you'd just met (after your 2nd good date) asked you to join him on a weekend trip he had planned ? Your impression of the guy would be ? (assuming you're not typically a sex-on-a-first/2nd or 3rd date kind of girl)
todreaminblue Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 i have been on trips with two guys and not have sex happen because i made it clear from the start its not what i wanted.....i knew them well enough to know that they would respect me......i would not go on a trip with a guy i hadnt known for a while..and with whom i felt safe with and not with a guy who hadnt had time to show me respect in action not just words.............and my intuition is pretty spot on i got asked by one guy to go away on a weekend trip to see his son it was also with another couple..he was always respectful of me in public and in private ......i hadnt known him all that long though......a little voice told me no dotn go and i listened......he died in a car crash that weekend....so i do listen to what my heart tells me to do...in many situations...........deb
smackie9 Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 To me that is going away with a total stranger.....not a safe thing to do. I would find it inappropriate anyways, but that's just me.
StBreton Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Ladies; what would be going through your mind if a guy you'd just met (after your 2nd good date) asked you to join him on a weekend trip he had planned ? Your impression of the guy would be ? (assuming you're not typically a sex-on-a-first/2nd or 3rd date kind of girl) My second date with my exH of 18 yrs was to the wine country. I did make it clear no funny business. We missed 3 flights coming back...great time. He was a gentleman though so just make sure you're safe. I did know my ex for 6 weeks before going though...and his grandmother lived where we would be visiting. My impression is that your guy likes to kick it up a notch/carpe diem...he takes the bull by the horns.
mystikmind2005 Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Well, it is not wise, but despite all the advice of the ladies here,,, let's face it.... if a woman is really excited about a guy, she will do crazy things, FACT. If you do go away with him, make sure you can keep an exit strategy,, if the situation is not amenable to that, then don't go.
Gaeta Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Ladies; what would be going through your mind if a guy you'd just met (after your 2nd good date) asked you to join him on a weekend trip he had planned ? Your impression of the guy would be ? (assuming you're not typically a sex-on-a-first/2nd or 3rd date kind of girl) He HAD planned? I would think he got dumped recently and he's looking to replace his ex on the trip. 1
preraph Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 In this day and time, I would not feel safe doing that. What with sex trafficking and all. He could be anyone. You don't know him. If he is a good guy, he will totally respect you for saying "No, it's way too soon. I don't know you well enough yet."
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