Redfisher Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 For every yr they claim they havn't had sex they really mean a month. For every month they really mean week. LOL! Probably true my friend. lol
okc85 Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Yes, online dating is worth a shot. It shouldn't be your only way of meeting people, though. Go to bars join clubs go to meetups use online dating ask your friends if they know anyone single I've had a lot of good experiences from online dating. It's all about perspective.
okc85 Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Like a lot of folks, I turned to online dating expecting to find some women who are datable and maybe have their sh*t together. Sadly, I encountered none. We disagree. Part of my point is that online dating is not a representation of real life. It has an over sampling of people who are undatable for various reasons. That's ridiculous, lol. and if you go into online dating with that attitude, it's no surprise that online dating doesn't work for you. If a single girl hangs at a bar all the time in an attempt to meet a guy, is she more datable than a woman who sets up a dating profile? Why? What is this stigma with online dating? We do EVERYTHING online now. 'People who use online banking are messed up people. Why do they have to do it ONLINE when the bank is right down the streeT? something is up!!!'
Gaeta Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 (edited) Like a lot of folks, I turned to online dating expecting to find some women who are datable and maybe have their sh*t together. Sadly, I encountered none. We disagree. Part of my point is that online dating is not a representation of real life. It has an over sampling of people who are undatable for various reasons. I don't know where you live but in my city there are tons of hot men and women online and of all ages. Not only hot but professionals in all fields. My brother met his wife online and she's a doctor. My brother in law who's an engineer met his marine biologist wife online who's also a marathoner. Maybe you just live in a sh$tty place. Edited December 13, 2015 by Gaeta
oberkeat Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 (edited) That's ridiculous, lol. and if you go into online dating with that attitude, it's no surprise that online dating doesn't work for you. My attitude isn't the issue. I did online dating with an open mind on and off for three years, and met nothing but losers. Why do you discount my experiences? If a single girl hangs at a bar all the time in an attempt to meet a guy, is she more datable than a woman who sets up a dating profile? Why? What is this stigma with online dating? We do EVERYTHING online now. 'People who use online banking are messed up people. Why do they have to do it ONLINE when the bank is right down the streeT? something is up!!!' I believe that unless a woman is disabled or disfigured, she should have no trouble finding a man in real life. All a woman has to do to get a man is just stand there and look approachable, and men will approach begging for dates. If she has to turn to online dating to find a man, I think there must be something wrong with her. Something that is keeping her single. This isn't just my uninformed opinion, it is backed up by my experiences and the people I've encountered in the online dating world. Edited December 13, 2015 by oberkeat
Doublegold Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 (edited) I have a question about OLD and views/messages. I have received a lot of views and messages that have no photo. When I click on the profile it say "ooops this profile is no longer available". Does anyone else experience this? It happens a couple of times a week--sometimes a few times a day? It creeps me out. I would get if it happened a few times but it strikes me as a made up profile and why would someone do that? Unless its an X. Or a weirdo. Edited December 13, 2015 by Doublegold
Author Tonic Posted December 14, 2015 Author Posted December 14, 2015 Appreciate all the feedback guys. My expectations aren't all that high, just going to see what happens. I thought most people that go clubbing were looking for a smash and dash rather than on the hunt for a good sort?
Toodaloo Posted December 14, 2015 Posted December 14, 2015 Tonic. Online Dating is what it is. A tool to meet other people. Some of those people will be complete nutters. Some of those people will be lovely just not a match for you. Perhaps one may be a match. The point is everyone is a stranger until you meet. Talk to women on line, talk to women in the line to pay your groceries, talk to women everywhere you meet them. That way you have a chance. If you encounter a whack job woman, then stop talking to her before you become bitter and twisted and wind up blaming women world wide for lack of dates... because that is really unattractive.
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