NatashaCarter Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 I really like one of my male friends but I wonder if I should give up hope he feels the same. I'll admit I've been sending him mixed signals since I'm trying not to seem desperate. He may like me because: -He will text first if he doesn't hear from me after a while -He occasionally asks how I am/what I'm up to -He's concerned when I'm upset -He touches me a lot and laughs at my jokes more than with other girls -We play fight a lot (physically and verbally) But: -He's a generally friendly person (with many female friends) -He jokingly said he's not attracted to me (part of our banter... or real?) -He takes a while to text back sometimes (but is a generally horrible texter with all of his friends?) -He listens intently to me 95% of the time but also zones out rarely Should I just give up hope? Please be honest. I don't want to keep pining over someone I have no chance with.
JustGettingBy Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 You may want to consider making a move so at least you know for sure either way, or at least asking to meet him 1-on-1 to better gauge any possible interest. No, don't give up hope, but don't start thinking 'sure thing' either.
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