Thank you

[Plaster]

Hello again guys. I hope any of you reading this are doing as well as you can be given the circumstances (I assume most reading this will be heartbroken)

 

Well about (I've actually lost count) 8 or 9 months ago, I was where many of you are now. Broken, empty, depressed - all of those lovely feelings you get from a break up.

Now, I am back to my normal self. In fact I am now a better person than I have ever been, not to mention that I am in peak physical condition, my fashion and style has improved and I have become more humble and open minded. I enjoy life more now. I lead a better life now.

And do you know what? It is because of the break up that brought me to this forum. I came here searching for answers that would make me believe she would realise that she made a mistake and she would come back. That naivety and denial that I wanted reinforced by the community here. But instead I found advice and a place to vent when I needed to. And yes I left suddenly, but I had to say bye to the forum as that was the next step in moving on.

 

Without burbling on, I just want to tell you all that it will get better. I have a beautiful girl now, who I really have something special with. I have a more fulfilling life and am proud of myself now.

 

Of course I still have the moment that I miss 'the one that bought me here' but I've accepted that, I miss the memories more than her.

 

I guess I felt I owe this to the forum, for having my back when I was low. So here we are. Thank you. I have moved on successfully and most likely won't return until it happens again.

 

So to all of you reading this, heartbroken, it won't be easy. There is no quick fix. But it will happen. You will get over this and be happy with someone else, but first you must be happy with yourself. So go and workout every day, go for that new job, take yourself on holiday, go and chase one night stands. It's all apart of moving on and living.

 

I promise things will get better. You may be having the darkest time of your life right now, I know I did, but you will get past it and you will be happy again. Just take small steps and move on in your own time.

 

Good luck and don't stop bettering yourself.

[Plaster]

And may I add - I've had her resurface quite a few times telling me she made a mistake. It just made me feel better about myself. It's true, they do always rear their heads! And she got fat and I got ripped - if I'm being petty

[Reels]

Good to hear.

 

Everyone chooses their own way, its some who are happier and some who are just never happy.