newt Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Still trying to figure out why so many people add someone they met on a dating site as their FB friend.
bathtub-row Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Wow. If she went to those extremes just because she THOUGHT you might've been expecting (or hoping for) sex, that's really out there. Most women are aware that men are always at least hoping for sex. Since when is that a crime? I think that if I had been her, I would've grinned and thought, "Yeah, it's not gonna happen, babe." Go on date. Enjoy. End of story. The truth is, by agreeing to meet you at your place, she was sending the wrong signal anyway. First of all, it was really dumb of her to agree to that because she barely knows you. Secondly, to block you over a post like that is completely ridiculous. I'm not sure you really lost anything here except for a drama queen.
newt Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 OP i have to admit your FB post was kind of odd even for someone who is a friend or relative. lol I have posted about Laundry but not about what I was washing. That would be TMI 2
newt Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 Also OP I think 90 mins is a bit far for two people who want to date each other.
Snakechammah Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 I completely agree with Newt. She probably thinks you're the kind of guy to BRAG about getting laid... in FB. That's the idea I got from your post - why talk about washng your laundry if you have no intention to 'brag' to your guy friends "oh look, I have a woman coming to my place! Look world, I'm washing my comforter!! " I dunno... maybe she thinks like that too, and also happens to be a big time flaker. Combine the two... and POOF! 1
Wewon Posted December 13, 2015 Posted December 13, 2015 You dodged a bullet in any case. First, being a no-show like that is more than inconsiderate, people that do that usually have some angry passive-aggressive thing going on. There's a level of meaness it takes to do that to someone. Its almost a cruel prank. Second, if a post about a comforter on a social media page, that the world could see (not her overhearing a private conversation between two 'bros') could cause her to jump to a conclusion then you saved yourself a life of stress. This is the kind of woman who starts every other sentence with the phrase, "What's that suppose to mean?!" just before you find yourself explaining every other innocuous comment, gesture, sneeze, or trip to the bathroom. She sounds too high strung. 2
Author brandon26003 Posted December 13, 2015 Author Posted December 13, 2015 She knows that I'm smart enough to not post anything online that would give the impression that I was hoping for sex. I'll never know because of her childish act of blocking me and standing me up. You're right. I did save myself.
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