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I've been on 2 dates with her and things are going in the right direction


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I met her on a dating site. We were messaging each other for a few days and I suggested that we go out. She agreed. So far we have been on 2 dates.

 

The first date went well. I picked her up from her house and we both went bar hopping in downtown. After that she wanted to order food so order take out and she wanted to come back to my place. She spend the night at my house and I took her home in the morning. We both had a great time.

 

Throughout the week, we kept in touch through text and phone calls. I set up our 2nd date and we went clubbing. We both had a blast that night. She was hungry so we order and came back to my house. I took her home in the afternoon. She suggested that we both should hang out that night, but when she called me to confirm it was too late so we both just went to sleep.

 

I was thinking of asking her out on a quick lunch date for Monday so I can see her and then suggest a 3rd date for Friday or Saturday.

 

Things are going so great. I wish I get to see her more, but our schedules conflict each others so much. I work grave yard shift and sleeps during the day. She has class and work during the day, but she doesn't have a car at the moment.

 

I am planning to give her "The Talk" to see where this relationship is going, but I am not sure when is the best time to ask her this. Any suggestions?

Edited by CaptCharisma
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Don't ask after two dates. Don't say anything. Eventually she'll speak up about it if she is also into you. It seems weird to put a time on when to ask but if you really can't wait I usually wonder after a month.

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If you have that talk so soon there likely won't be anymore dates. That sort of thing is taboo for guys for some reason even though it makes logical sense.

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