guild11 Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 Hello, me and my friend rented a house with a 1 year contract 4 month ago, we are both students. I been with my GF for 7 month and she lived with her mom. Her mom left the the country a month ago and since then I been staying at her place every single day. We also work in the same place so we basically together all day everyday. I'm not getting tired of her nor does she but there are few problems. I dont buy groceries to my house, instead me and my GF do shopping in turns. The annoying thing is that I pay half of the bills with my buddy when I'm not staying home - ever, I would come just to take clothes/college stuff. I feel like a leech living with my GF but dont pay any bills, There is no way that I'll pay for 2 house, ill be broke in a week. I asked my gf "what if my buddy finds new partner? And we move in for real" she said that her mom might return and she is going to live with us until she finds a house/finds a job. I rejected that and I said I didnt left my parents house to live with her mom, she understood that. To be honest I could live fine by not staying at her place everyday, I have easier time studying when I'm alone at my house and my desktop and my computer. She is not willing to stay alone anymore, whenever I say that I stay in my house she gets upset and start saying that I dont love her anymore/got tired of, which is not true at all. Any tips ? Should I continue like this until my contract ends ?
casey.lives Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 moving in together is huge. don't take this decision lightly. just spend less time with your girlfriend and slow down the relationship... spending all the time together at this stage is A LOT
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