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Me and this girl have had three dates and I've been over to her place in which we got intimate.

 

Anyway she text me randomly saying hello and that she hoped my day was better than hers. We flirted and she told me she was in hospital because of her leg.

 

Although at the end of our texting, I'm unsure if I've annoyed her or now put her off..

 

Girl: It's the third time it happens this week. But i'm at home resting. What do your healing powers consist in?

Me: Well funnily enough, healing really bad knees. I do home visits, but a lot of people have fully booked my services

Girl: Hahaha I should be in the VIP list!

Me: Hmm, maybe.. I'll give it some thought

Girl: I'll stay in my bed, waiting then...

Me: After some thought I can do a house visit, but I require the patients permission

(half hour later)

Me: I'm off out so leaving my phone at home, I hope your leg gets better. Goodnight punk

Girl: Sorry babe, i'm speaking with my mum, thank you!!

 

I am posting this quickly because i'm about to leave, but did I annoy her? I don't know if her "thank you!!" was aimed at me hoping her leg was getting better, or that she was sarcastically saying it out of annoyance. She's never called me babe before.

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Me and this girl have had three dates and I've been over to her place in which we got intimate.

 

Anyway she text me randomly saying hello and that she hoped my day was better than hers. We flirted and she told me she was in hospital because of her leg.

 

Although at the end of our texting, I'm unsure if I've annoyed her or now put her off..

 

Girl: It's the third time it happens this week. But i'm at home resting. What do your healing powers consist in?

Me: Well funnily enough, healing really bad knees. I do home visits, but a lot of people have fully booked my services

Girl: Hahaha I should be in the VIP list!

Me: Hmm, maybe.. I'll give it some thought

Girl: I'll stay in my bed, waiting then...

Me: After some thought I can do a house visit, but I require the patients permission

(half hour later)

Me: I'm off out so leaving my phone at home, I hope your leg gets better. Goodnight punk

Girl: Sorry babe, i'm speaking with my mum, thank you!!

 

I am posting this quickly because i'm about to leave, but did I annoy her? I don't know if her "thank you!!" was aimed at me hoping her leg was getting better, or that she was sarcastically saying it out of annoyance. She's never called me babe before.

 

Was your goal to see her now?

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What are you worried about? Her responses are normal and show she's interested. The thank you is obviously about your leg comment, it seems like you got a little antsy with the back to back texts, but she responded well.

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You're over analyzing.

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She's never called me babe before.

 

I'm hoping "punk" is short for "pumpkin"...

 

I"d have just been direct and told her " Dr. Feelgood is on his way over... see you soon"

 

Sounds like she's thanking you for hoping her leg gets better.

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Thanks for your answers. I was worried about appearing passive-aggressive with my last reply because of no response, when really I was aiming to close our conversation anyway as I was off out (and i don't want to lose my phone or text when drunk). It's what worried me when she said "babe", it's a word i've never heard her say when dating/talking and considering she's from another country

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I'm hoping "punk" is short for "pumpkin"...

 

I"d have just been direct and told her " Dr. Feelgood is on his way over... see you soon"

 

Sounds like she's thanking you for hoping her leg gets better.

 

Punk is a pet name I call her because she kept calling me ninja.

 

I'd have been direct, if I didn't already have plans. She lives with flatmates and I assume in our early stages of dating she'd rather it just be us two. Will arrange to see her when I text her Saturday or Sunday, unless she texts first.

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