Eloise1 Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 I met this guy a few weeks ago here at college. We live on the same floor in the dorms, and although we only met him recently he has quickly become close with our group of friends. He comes over almost every night to my roommate and my room to play music and sing with us and my roommates boyfriend, as well as just to talk and hang out, or sometimes watch a movie with us, or occasionally we all go stargazing... Anyway, he is one of the nicest people I have ever met and although I like him quite a bit I am having trouble discerning if he likes me back, partly because he's just so nice to EVERYONE. We have many good one on one conversations, and I know he enjoys me as a friend. He makes eye contact and compliments me but I don't know if it's more than he compliments my friends, and he hasn't made any moves to touch me or be physically close, even when we sat next to each other to watch a film... Just tries to hang out with us most nights. And we are good friends after just a few weeks. So I'm wondering, should I tell him I like him? Maybe casually/jokingly remark how sweet he is and that I can't tell if he's a bro or if I have a crush on him? I am SO bad at flirting in part because some of my closest friends are guys and I'm more comfortable being platonic. I want to be proactive but I don't want to put him in an awkward situation or ruin what is currently a lovely friendship. I worry that leaving it too long might get me permanently in the friend zone, but on the flip side I don't want to force things. How do I get him to see me as more than a friend?
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