simon_uk Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 My ex went away on a Carribean cruise last Friday, I don't know why but this has made me feel really down. I think it is because I am just thinking that she is having so much fun and really living her life whilst I am still stuck here at home feeling soory for myself. We have been in NC for the past 4 or 5 weeks, broke up for 8. Why am I feeling like this??? Arrgggghhhhh!!!!! It was only a few weeks before we split that she was telling me how much she loved me etc etc and was worried that I was going to dump her! i just don't get it! All I can think of is her partying with some wealthy bloke on the cruise!!!! On top of that I have been trying to get out and meet other women but it just doesnt seem to be happening. For example earlier this evening I was out with a friend and I was getting serious eye contact from a girl on the net table, I waited for a suitable opening and made my approach. Asked her name, told her mine and then asked if she would like to have a drink sometime. She said maybe. So I said have a think about it but I am leaving soon. Anyway sat back down, no more eye contact, I noticed a ring that she had earlier on her middle finger had now miraculously moved to her wedding finger. She never looked at me once again, as I was leaving I made a point of shaking her hand and saying goodbye but didn't bother wasting my time asking her if she had thought about us going for a drink!!! Obviously I was too forward or something, asking her for a drink? i don't know but it has just made me feel worse and wonder why I bother. *sigh* Simon
SASSYPRINCESS Posted May 31, 2005 Posted May 31, 2005 I think sometimes when your heart is still attached to someone, especially guys, a girl can pick up on it straight away and maybe you did nothing wrong by asking her for a drink other than maybe she picked up the vibe you were in love elsewhere.. sounds stupid but true..so dont worry about it.. its nothing.. chin up As for your ex wat is NC... ? The reason u feel jealous is because you still love her and rightfully also.. unfortunately jealousy is a curse and the more you imagine what may or may not be happening the worse the rage inside will get , so you need to try not think about it all.. think of her. yes .. but dont think of what she may or may not be doing because for all u know she might be missing u like crazy aswell.. you may be suprised.
BrotherAaron Posted June 3, 2005 Posted June 3, 2005 Simon, man, call your friends, get off the computer, and go do something that will take your mind of what your ex is doing. You will find more interesting things to do with your time. We both know that you've realized by now that you don't need this girl. I don't know how long it's going to be before you truly believe that, but - trust me - when you do, it will be the best day of your life. If you're stuck at the bottom of a rut, then just think of how good it will feel when you climb back out of it. Look forward Simon - there are good things to come.
alphamale Posted June 3, 2005 Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by simon_uk as I was leaving I made a point of shaking her hand and saying goodbye why would you do that SIMON_UK? she had already rejected you. don't be too nice. you should have just gotten up and split.
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