kxpxsc3 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 I don't know how to link a post... but I shared my story here before of my ex who got me pregnant then didn't give a **** and wanted me to abort (ended in me having miscarriage). Anyway, we ended things but he strung me along for months until we both moved away for work. He didn't contact me for FOUR MONTHS, literally nothing, while I pined for him and fell into depression over my miscarriage.... all that time before deciding to close the door and deleted his number, cancel all social media friendships, etc. I never blocked him because I thought sh*t, it's been 4 months no word, there is no chance in heck he will contact me. And I went full NC (no social media stalking, no contact at all) for 5 weeks and today I received a message on FB from him. I haven't read it but I saw one tiny part where it says "I just realized we aren't..." and I think he means to say friends anymore. I'm too scared to read the rest, I don't know if I should ignore and delete or reply or what???
Nickr3023 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 I don't know how to link a post... but I shared my story here before of my ex who got me pregnant then didn't give a **** and wanted me to abort (ended in me having miscarriage). Anyway, we ended things but he strung me along for months until we both moved away for work. He didn't contact me for FOUR MONTHS, literally nothing, while I pined for him and fell into depression over my miscarriage.... all that time before deciding to close the door and deleted his number, cancel all social media friendships, etc. I never blocked him because I thought sh*t, it's been 4 months no word, there is no chance in heck he will contact me. And I went full NC (no social media stalking, no contact at all) for 5 weeks and today I received a message on FB from him. I haven't read it but I saw one tiny part where it says "I just realized we aren't..." and I think he means to say friends anymore. I'm too scared to read the rest, I don't know if I should ignore and delete or reply or what??? Well, how did you feel while you went no contact? Did you feel yourself starting to get better? Did you continue to struggle? What do you WANT the message to say? If you get what you want, will it change anything? All questions to ask yourself before you read it.
Silver_star Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 I don't know how to link a post... but I shared my story here before of my ex who got me pregnant then didn't give a **** and wanted me to abort (ended in me having miscarriage). Anyway, we ended things but he strung me along for months until we both moved away for work. He didn't contact me for FOUR MONTHS, literally nothing, while I pined for him and fell into depression over my miscarriage.... all that time before deciding to close the door and deleted his number, cancel all social media friendships, etc. I never blocked him because I thought sh*t, it's been 4 months no word, there is no chance in heck he will contact me. And I went full NC (no social media stalking, no contact at all) for 5 weeks and today I received a message on FB from him. I haven't read it but I saw one tiny part where it says "I just realized we aren't..." and I think he means to say friends anymore. I'm too scared to read the rest, I don't know if I should ignore and delete or reply or what??? Read it, because I think if you don't and you delete it your curiosity might have you contacting him later, and that's no good. Do not respond. Read it, and come back and get advice. He was a complete douche bag and an idiot. He does not deserve your time of day. So keep that in mind. 1
Author kxpxsc3 Posted December 10, 2015 Author Posted December 10, 2015 Read it, because I think if you don't and you delete it your curiosity might have you contacting him later, and that's no good. Do not respond. Read it, and come back and get advice. He was a complete douche bag and an idiot. He does not deserve your time of day. So keep that in mind. Oh wow... I'm proverbially hitting my head against the wall! He sent me a picture and said "just realized i don't have you on snapchat anymore womp womp" So he wanted to send me something on snap but realized I'm not on there anymore (since i defriended him- although not sure he is realizing that fully) so he opted to message it to me instead......
hippychick3 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Now that you know what it says, don't respond and delete the message. Nothing good at all can come out of any response from you.
Silver_star Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Oh wow... I'm proverbially hitting my head against the wall! He sent me a picture and said "just realized i don't have you on snapchat anymore womp womp" So he wanted to send me something on snap but realized I'm not on there anymore (since i defriended him- although not sure he is realizing that fully) so he opted to message it to me instead...... Okay he is a dumbass. You will be okay. He is a jerk. You don't need his stupid pics. No **** you don't want his snapchat stories. He treated you like dirt. Who cares whats going on in his life. Take care of yourself and your future and delete the message and also BLOCK him so he cant send you anything else. He should get the message after that. Good job *air high five
mightycpa Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Block, block, block. It's suffering season, and you've got to protect yourself.
Meli22 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Just block his a** He wants attention. Let him go find it elsewhere.
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