function Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 hi im new.................. i been with my boyfriend for fourteen years and i have six children with him a couple of years ago he cheated and ha da baby with someone eles i decided to stand by him and currently he doesnt want nothing to do with it and he pays matience but do you think he is only doing this for me and it really hurt mre and thought i would be the only one that gave him kids he did tell her he wasnt intrested but she went ahead with it and has been given me and us but grief.what do you think?
whichwayisup Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 Not sure exactly what you are asking here, but my advice is to talk to him, be honest about how you feel - And together fix the marriage, go to couples councilling. He's with you and not her so that is a good thing, he pays child support for his other child with the OW, but he doesn't want to be a part of their lives. This OW probably is making him feel bad and guilty, which is why she is giving you both alot of hassel. Is he a good husband to you and a good father to your kids? What kind of relationship do you have with him? You might be better off posting this in the Infidelity section. Most betrayed spouses post in that section.
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