mortensorchid Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 About this time last year I was seeing a guy for a bit. He was/is 14 years younger than me, he specifically said he was interest in me because I am an older woman (I am now 40, was 39 when we were together). He had a lot of work and personal project obligations going on and we drifted over time. Good guy and all, but I am afraid for whatever reason IT just didn't happen. I bumped into him on Halloween, he sent a few texts since then asking if I wanted to get together, he still thinks of me. Quite honestly, I have lost my mojo. He's a good guy, but I have learned over time (not just with this case but others past) that if neither party is making an effort to make things happen, ain't gonna happen. He and I are just not that into each other. I think we both moved on from this. Kind of depressing...
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 So you bumped into him on Halloween, he asks you if you want to get together because he still thinks of you and...then what? What did you respond?
Author mortensorchid Posted December 11, 2015 Author Posted December 11, 2015 I said "alright". We have not connected since then. It's a lost cause.
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 In that case yeah. It takes at least one person to initiate pursuit otherwise you're sitting ducks. If you're not really into him then why is it depressing?
Redfisher Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 You sound down...Hope something gets you cheered up!
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