Bradt Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 Ok,i have been in an on-off relationship with this girl for 7years and we were engeded.She left me probly over 15 times and I kept going begging her to take me back.... About 7months ago she packed up and left again.The last time we were together I treated her like a queen,open car doors etc etc...but she was still rude sometimes. Anyway since we broke up I met another girl which I dated for about 3-4 months.She had emotional issues and was also rude to me.She felt the entire world is against her and took that nonsinse out on me...My 1st ex father saw us together once.... So last night I'm having a beer in the bar and I see my 1st ex with the guy she always got a lift to work with.And she did tell me someone at work been telling her hes been inlove with her since last year while we were broken up... Last night I walked passed them and I heard them say "there he goes" .I had to walk pass them again to leave the bar,so I looked at them but they made as if they didn't see me. Know this is the first time I saw her in 7months and I have been n/c all this time.It hurt like hell for long but I always worried how i'd react of I see her again,especially with another dude. I went up to them and said to her "hi how you doin"...she replied " what the fn f are you doing here and( alot of f's and things after that)"...I smiled and said "I'm sorry,I just wanted to say hello,I appologise,I had no intensions to upset you I wount greet you again I'm sorry" and I walk backwards with a smile while she was swearing me...why is she so upset if she left me?Not that I care just interisted to know... Oh I saw her new bf( the guy she work with) today and I greeted him... 1
marky00 Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 ouch 15 times... and i thought my 2 times was bad. my best guess is she was putting on a show in front of her new bf. Basically showing him that your out of the picture and also boosting her ego in front of his eyes (by showing him she has choices etc etc).
mightycpa Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 ouch 15 times... and i thought my 2 times was bad. my best guess is she was putting on a show in front of her new bf. Basically showing him that your out of the picture and also boosting her ego in front of his eyes (by showing him she has choices etc etc). Yeah, she wanted to show the new guy what a classy lady she is! 2
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 10, 2015 Posted December 10, 2015 It's amazing to me it took 7 years and 15 breakups for you to see what kind of human being she really is. 2
SoThatHappened Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 It's amazing to me it took 7 years and 15 breakups for you to see what kind of human being she really is. No ef'n eff! Dang, man. You need to reverse the reasons you attract these winners while forgetting she even exists. Don't waste your life on this girl. Seven years is long enough.
Captivating Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 (edited) Bradt, It was very nice of you to say hello to them, you shouldn't have apologized though. You didn't do anything wrong. She is f.....d up ! I don't know how you put up with her crap for 7 years. NEVER EVER let anyone threat you like that anymore, especially in a relationship. This is not normal, she is not normal. If you let yourself being treated poorly, they will treat you poorly. How you perceive yourself is how they will perceive you. You need to think of why you let her be rude to you for years and you wanting reconcile with her over and over again. Why?? I tell you, you need to be believe that you are a catch, and you deserve WAY BETTER than that !!! Right ?? So keep your chin up and start dating again. There are plenty of kind and caring ladies out there ! After finding a nice girlfriend your only thought will be " What was I thinking dating the previous girl !!! ?? " Edited December 11, 2015 by Captivating
Samhain Posted December 11, 2015 Posted December 11, 2015 She was as rude and obnoxious after NC as she was while you were begging her over and over. Shouldn't have been a surprise. She's showing the guy she's with that you're nothing to her, not that you were anything when you were with her anyway. NC isn't a strategy, it's an absolute rule, for your own benefit not the other persons. Don't approach her anywhere any time, ever, you just learned that. If you're ever unfortunate enough to see her again, act like she isn't there and get on with your evening/life.
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