DesertDweller Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 My ex (?) MM can't make up his mind about me. I've told him I don't want to be with a married man, but that doesn't seem to phase him. He'll disappear for a few days, then come around acting like nothing has happened. One day he says he loves me, (I didn't say it back), the next day he says we can't see each other. One day he talks about how happy we could be if "his wife just dropped off the face of the earth," the next he says we can only be friends. He's in marriage counseling. Maybe this has something to do with it? Oh, and he's fifty and just bought a Porsche. Seems like andropause....Anyway, why doesn't he just let me go?
westernxer Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 Seems like he can't make up his mind about his marriage, either.
kkat Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 You are definitely seeing the same type of MM I was. And by the way, despite the fact that the sex was great for both he and I, in many ways, EA aspects of my relationship were/are FAR more compelling for both of us...
wyzeup Posted May 30, 2005 Posted May 30, 2005 Of course he vacillates back and forth - he doesn't want you to get too hooked on him yet he wants to keep you interested/hanging on enough to ensure his unlimited supply of sex. Do you really expect a man who's f***ing around on the woman he pledged his life and love and heart to (his wife) to be anything other than honest and consistent? You can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear. You're being played for your vagina, better learn to accept it.
westernxer Posted May 31, 2005 Posted May 31, 2005 Originally posted by DesertDweller Anyway, why doesn't he just let me go? Why don't you take the initiative and leave? I think I already know the answer.
kkat Posted May 31, 2005 Posted May 31, 2005 You're being played for your vagina, better learn to accept it. Actually, I believe that DesertDweller's vagina hasn't been the domain of this MM - I think their relationship has been non-sexual.
MiChick43 Posted May 31, 2005 Posted May 31, 2005 One day he talks about how happy we could be if "his wife just dropped off the face of the earth," Thats nice. What a man. He sounds like a dreamboat kinda guy. YOU are way too good for this one.
StillHurtin Posted May 31, 2005 Posted May 31, 2005 He seems like he doesn't know what he really wants, you or his W.
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